Diary Of a Solo Mum

Diary Of a Solo Mum

di Stacey Drewry
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What Everyone Tells You and Noone Tells You About Being a Solo Mum
As soon as you become pregnant the world and their wife start to bombard you with unsolicited advice, and it seems to get louder when they realise you are going solo. From being told how hard it will be on your own to horrifying birth stories the oversharing can be incredibly daunting, but here is what they don't tell you: Your baby will be the centre of your world, you wont have to share your time or your child with anyone else You get to make all the decisions in their upbringing with no compromises You get to do it your way You don't owe anyone an explanation, you don't need to protect the nosey Karen's feelings!
Women in a Toxic Work Culture
In today's society women are expected to work like they don't have children, parent like they don't have jobs and still function in day to day society. To make it even more challenging the workplace can often be a toxic environment for many women, we are expected to navigate outdated attitudes, bullying, sexism and harassment while doing the same job as men but for less pay. Work culture are missing a trick, instead of expecting women to act like men to succeed they should be tapping into our strengths and skills to create a diverse and effective working environment. In this episode I talk through the experiences and challenges I have had through my career and how they have shaped the woman I am today
The Instagram Mum Generation
In this episode I explores the profound impact social media has on modern parenting, specifically focusing on the shift from local support networks to digital communities, and the internal and external pressure to be the perfect mum.
DNA Testing in a Modern Society
With the rise of direct to customer DNA test what can seem like a bit of fun carries unanticipated risks. In this episode I discuss the risks of DNA testing with stories from others on their own shocking revelations. I also consider the role these DNA tests will have on our donor conceived children
The Solo Mum Movement in a World Without Aging
Listening to a podcast on the way to work got me thinking! Steven Bartlett and David Sinclair discuss the reversal of aging at the cellular level in Diary of a CEO https://open.spotify.com/episode/7fEZDlnA1z8H0gjm2bYcyC?si=ea7xCTpYR9-tuQu_Any1rA&utm_source=copy-link This triggered a thought experiment, what impact would the reversal of aging have on the Solo Mum movement? In this episode I explore the hypothetical scenario where we can reverse aging to a live expectancy of 200+ years
An Interview with an Egg Donor
In this episode I talk through the process of egg donation and I was privileged to speak to an egg donor and discuss her motivations and expectations for the future. Further resources: https://www.hfea.gov.uk/about-us/media-centre/egg-donation-a-factsheet/ https://www.londoneggbank.com/donating-eggs/? https://www.ivf-embryo.gr/en/egg-donation-greece?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=112262601&gbraid=0AAAAADsGCsdDRDoXxJkdDkFZjXGHAG2XJ&gclid=CjwKCAjwgajSBhBEEiwASicJU2V2M1VKhtYm7lyhsGq5-g7Z1MHz8ZMTSs_NChc2SSw53esgSAOSphoC6hEQAvD_BwE
Dating as a Solo Mum
There are common misconceptions when it comes to solo mums and dating, many assume; We couldn't find a man and therefore we HAD to go it alone, implying we are undateable We must HATE men and that is why we have chosen to use a donor In the vast majority this is not the case, maybe time has slipped away from us, maybe we have higher standards than our prior dating history, or maybe we are just not interested in having a relationship. Whatever the reasons we got here it does not prevent us from dating in the future. In this episode I discuss my dating decisions and speak to other solo mums on their perspectives when it comes to dating as a Solo Mum
A quick guide to IVF
IVF can be full of acronyms and new terms which can be overwhelming, this episode is a quick guide to IVF and I have included some links below for further information https://www.fertility-academy.co.uk/blog/the-ivf-process-a-step-by-step-guide/ https://www.hfea.gov.uk/i-am/single-women/ https://www.hfea.gov.uk/treatments/explore-all-treatments/using-donated-eggs-sperm-or-embryos-in-treatment/ https://www.hfea.gov.uk/treatments/explore-all-treatments/in-vitro-fertilisation-ivf/ https://www.hfea.gov.uk/treatments/treatment-add-ons/ https://www.hfea.gov.uk/treatments/treatment-add-ons/pre-implantation-genetic-testing-for-aneuploidy-pgt-a/ https://www.hfea.gov.uk/treatments/embryo-testing-and-treatments-for-disease/
Having a Baby in Spirit
Losing a baby is indescribable and the pain does not leave you. While time may pass and carrying the loss gets more familiar it never leaves you. Having Savannah will never replace Poppy or my other little ones, however it does give rise to a different level of pain and guilt. I will always be eternally grateful for both my daughters and I am sure Poppy is watching over Savannah every day If you have experienced miscarriage or child loss I found the following organisations really helpful: https://www.sands.org.uk/ https://www.miscarriageuk.org/ https://www.tommys.org/baby-loss-support https://www.lullabytrust.org.uk/bereavement-support/practical-advice/places-to-go-for-support/ https://www.ellies.gift/ https://www.achingarms.co.uk/ https://theworstgirlgangever.co.uk/
The Impact of screen time on our children
In this episode I discuss the use of screen time in our parenting, the government (UK) guidelines and what the research says. Below are links to the research I have referenced in this episode: Government guidelines: https://beststartinlife.gov.uk/screen-time-under-5s/ Why Kids shows like Cocomelon hamper critical brain development: https://www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2024/05/17/why-kids-shows-like-cocomelon-hamper-critical-brain-development/ Is 'CoComelon' Bad for Kids? Here's What Experts Think: https://www.parents.com/news/some-think-cocomelon-is-too-stimulating-for-their-kids-we-asked-an-expert-to-weigh-insome-think-cocomelon-is-too-stimulating-for-their-kids-we-asked-an-expert-to-weigh-in/ Red Flags to look out for in your children's favourite tv show: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ie/blog/social-instincts/202406/2-red-flags-to-look-out-for-in-your-childs-favorite-tv-show
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