Dear Tober

Dear Tober

di Sara Miville & Kasandra Lima
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Episode # : A Fox's Tale
Kas and Sara welcome a very special guest: Kas’s mom, Fern. Together, they revisit the emotional landscape of Kas’s pregnancy and the heartbreaking loss of Tober, exploring how Fern experienced those moments as a mother and grandmother. She shares her perspective on supporting Kas through uncertainty, grief, and healing, and reflects on how the loss still echoes a year later.
Episode #10: Fu*k Chuck!
In this episode, Sara and Kasandra open up part two of Chuck’s story, diving into the chaos, confusion, and emotional fallout surrounding Kasandra's pregnancy with Tober. They walk listeners through the screenshots from that period, unpacking what was said, what was implied, and what was left unsaid. Kasandra revisits the exact messages Sara sent Chuck that day—messages loaded with frustration, and honesty—while Sara helps contextualize the drama that unfolded around Tober’s birth. Together, they piece through the timeline, the reactions, and the impact those conversations had on everyone involved, offering a raw and unfiltered look at this chapter.
Episode #9: What the Chuck
Kasandra and Sara discuss Chuck in part 1 of their story.
Episode #8 : Reddit Stories Part 2
Kasandra and Sara read reddit stories and discuss different topics from previous episodes, and how they relate to the real world.
Episode #7 : Rainbow After the Storm
Kas and Sara speak with their guest Tiffany about her multi-miscarriage journey to motherhood. Her story of grief, and hope as well as the joy of having her babies and the prospect of how different her life may have looked if those losses hadn't happened.
Episode 6 : Reddit Stories of Loss
Kas and Sara read #reddit #stories about #greif and #loss while discussing their personal journeys and #feelings about certain situations.
It wasn’t my baby but it still hurts anyways
On this episode we're joined by our friend Hailey who recounts her perception of the day and the events surrounding Tober's loss. Her guilt of being the only one whose baby survived our joint pregnancy journeys.
Merry Friendsmas Episode
Kasandra and Sara are joined by Tiff and Hailey, join them as they talk about Friendsmas and their own personal holiday miracles.
Oops I did it again, I broke my own heart.
Kasandra and Sara discuss Sara's miscarriage and Kasandra's current predicament as well as some baby daddy drama.
Life moves on, but my world stopped!
Kas and Sara discuss what it was like going home after the hospital and everything that happened in year 1 of losing Tober.
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