Everyone obsesses over getting in. Harlan Cohen talk focuses on what comes after, because the secret ingredient was never the school. It's the student.

Harlan Cohen has spent 25+ years helping families navigate the transition into and through college. He's the author of The Naked Roommate, the bestselling book on college life, and Win or Learn, and he runs the Best First Year coaching program.

What we cover:

Harlan starts with his own rocky first year — losing his roommate, his fraternity bids, and his girlfriend in a matter of weeks — and how it taught him that rejection creates reflection. We get into "wantrophy": what happens when high-achieving kids get so good at being wanted that they lose track of what they actually want. From there, his framework for the search — the six transi ...