What does surrender actually look like?

In this episode, John and Terry have an honest conversation about learning to let go without giving up.

They talk about the pressure of feeling responsible for everyone around you, the desire to make yourself valuable and needed, and how difficult it can be to surrender control when you've spent years learning to depend on yourself.

They also explore how our past shapes us without having to define us, and how two people can experience similar circumstances and still choose very different paths.

One of the biggest realizations in the conversation is that facing the same struggle doesn't mean you're starting over. Sometimes you're simply facing it from a different place because you've grown.

And maybe that's part of what following Jesus looks like—not finally arr ...