Birth Mother Matters in Adoption #75: Misunderstandings Surrounding Adoption Birth Mothers love their babies and are making an adoption choice because they have chosen to put their babies before themselves.  Birth mothers may be facing factors that society may not realize: There may be little to zero support from friends or family members.Drug use and homelessness are very common reasons for an adoption choice.Birth mothers are very afraid of being judged for their adoption choice.Birth mothers may struggle during their adoption journey and its important to understand when: Attending an OBGYN appointmentExplaining their adoption choiceChoosing an adoptive familyMaking an adoption planReviewing adoption consent paperwork prior to labor and deliveryThe birth of their babyLeaving the hospital4.Saying goodbye to their baby birth mother may have ...