Afros in the Diaspora

Afros in the Diaspora

di Sarah Uwadiae
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Family Law 101: Myths About Divorce, Custody & Separation - Part 2 | Family Lawyer Lucy Diale Mewanu
In Part 2 of this conversation, Sarah Uwadiae and family lawyer Lucy Diale Mewanu go deeper into the real-life consequences of separation in immigrant families, with a special focus on spousal sponsorship and the myths that keep many women feeling trapped. Lucy shares powerful case examples where partners left without warning, moved provinces, or started new relationships while still legally married, leaving the other spouse to navigate custody, finances, and immigration fears alone. She explains what actually happens legally when someone “just leaves,” how courts respond, and why waiting in silence can make situations harder to resolve. A major focus of this episode is spousal sponsorship. Lucy breaks down common misconceptions, clarifies what sponsored spouses can and cannot lose if a relationship ends, and explains the sponsor’s financial obligations. She emphasizes that immigration status is often misunderstood and that many people stay in unsafe or unhealthy situations out of fear rather than fact. The conversation highlights the importance of seeking accurate legal information early, protecting children’s stability, and understanding that separation does not automatically mean deportation or loss of rights. Topics covered include: What happens legally when a spouse abandons the home Separation without communication or agreement Custody realities after one parent disappears Spousal sponsorship myths vs legal facts Immigration status and fear of deportation Financial responsibility of the sponsor after separation Why many sponsored spouses feel “stuck” When and how to seek legal help This episode is for education and public awareness only and is not legal advice. For guidance on your specific situation, consult a qualified family or immigration lawyer. About the guest Lucy Diale Mewanu, BA (Hons), LL.B., is a Senior Associate and Managing Lawyer of the Family Law practice at Osuji & Smith Lawyers in Alberta, Canada. She is the Board Chair of Ruth’s House Society, a registered charity supporting individuals and families impacted by domestic abuse through shelter, advocacy, and culturally responsive programming. Lucy is also a volunteer lawyer with Calgary Legal Guidance and is deeply committed to increasing access to justice for immigrant and vulnerable communities. - Enjoyed this episode? Subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss future conversations. 📺 Watch full episodes on YouTube 📸 Follow us on FB, Instagram & TikTok: @AfrosInTheDiaspora
E53
21 apr 2026
53:01
Family Law 101: Myths About Divorce, Custody & Separation - Part 1 | Family Lawyer Lucy Diale Mewanu
In Part 1 of this two-part Expert’s Corner conversation, host Sarah Uwadiae sits down with family lawyer Lucy Diale Mewanu to unpack the foundations of Canadian family law and the common misconceptions many immigrants bring into marriage, separation, and parenting disputes. Drawing from her frontline legal experience, Lucy explains the core principles that guide family courts in Canada and how cultural expectations from highly patriarchal societies can clash with the realities of the legal system. The conversation explores how silence, endurance, and “being patient” are often encouraged culturally, but can leave women and children vulnerable when relationships break down. They discuss what actually matters to the court in custody decisions, how separation is defined legally (not just emotionally), and why understanding your rights early can prevent long-term harm. Lucy also speaks about protective measures such as restraining orders, the legal risks of online slander during disputes, and how to navigate community rumours and gossip while a case is ongoing. This episode is an essential primer for immigrants and newcomers who want to understand the legal landscape before crisis hits. Topics covered include: Basic principles of Canadian family law Common myths about divorce, separation, and parenting Culture, patriarchy, and the pressure on women to “endure” Custody and the best interests of the child Restraining and protection orders Social media, slander, and legal consequences Managing rumours and community pressure during disputes This episode is for education and public awareness only and is not legal advice. For guidance on your specific situation, consult a qualified family lawyer. About the guest Lucy Diale Mewanu, BA (Hons), LL.B., is a Senior Associate and Managing Lawyer of the Family Law practice at Osuji & Smith Lawyers in Alberta, Canada. She serves as Board Chair of Ruth’s House Society, volunteers with Calgary Legal Guidance, and dedicates annual pro bono hours to increasing access to justice for vulnerable individuals and families. Originally from Cameroon, Lucy immigrated to Canada in 2012 and was called to the Alberta Bar in 2021. Her work centres on family protection, community education, and culturally responsive legal advocacy. - Enjoyed this episode? Subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss future conversations. 📺 Watch full episodes on YouTube 📸 Follow us on Instagram: @AfrosInTheDiaspora
E52
17 mar 2026
55:04
Breaking HIV Stigma in Black Communities through Afrocare with Mariam Lawal
In this episode of Afros in the Diaspora, we speak with Maria, founder of AfroCare Support Network, about addressing HIV stigma in Black communities and the importance of culturally grounded care. Maria shares her journey as an immigrant, the inspiration behind AfroCare, and the systemic challenges that continue to impact access to support — from stigma within communities to barriers in funding and healthcare systems. This is an honest and necessary conversation about community, care, and change. About Afros in the Diaspora Afros in the Diaspora amplifies the voices, experiences, and expertise of African and Black diaspora communities across industries and lived experiences. Subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss future conversations. 📺 Watch full episodes on YouTube 📸 Follow us on Instagram: @AfrosInTheDiaspora
E51
3 mar 2026
1:14:06
Mental Health, Adjustment & Emotional Well-Being for Immigrants with Ayen Mabor
Immigration is more than a physical move — it is an emotional, psychological, and cultural transition that can deeply impact identity, relationships, and mental well-being. In this Expert’s Corner episode of Afros in the Diaspora, Sarah sits down with mental health therapist Ayen Mabor to explore the mental health realities many immigrants face but rarely talk about. From grief and identity shifts to family pressures, relationship strain, and navigating racism, this conversation offers honest insight and practical support. Ayen shares guidance on recognizing emotional burnout, breaking stigma around therapy in Black and immigrant communities, finding culturally aligned mental health support, and rebuilding self-compassion while adjusting to life in a new country. This episode is for immigrants, first-generation individuals, families, and anyone supporting someone navigating migration and cultural transition. About Afros in the Diaspora Afros in the Diaspora amplifies the voices, experiences, and expertise of African and Black diaspora communities across industries and lived experiences. Subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss future conversations. 📺 Watch full episodes on YouTube 📸 Follow us on Instagram: @AfrosInTheDiaspora
E50
17 feb 2026
1:06:01
Rooted in Rhythm: Casimiro Nhussi on his Dance Career and NAfro Dance
What does it take to build and sustain a Black dance company rooted in culture, authenticity, and community? In this episode of Afros in the Diaspora, Sarah sits down with dancer and cultural leader Casimiro “Cas” Nhussi to explore his journey into dance, the realities of building a Black dance company, and the challenges of funding, visibility, and long-term sustainability in the arts. Cas shares insights on staying culturally grounded while evolving creatively, supporting the next generation of dancers, and building work that lasts beyond trends. This conversation is a must-listen for dancers, creatives, and anyone building purpose-driven work rooted in culture and community. Afros in the Diaspora amplifies the voices, experiences, and expertise of African and Black diaspora communities across industries and lived experiences. Subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss future conversations. 📺 Watch full episodes on YouTube 📸 Follow us on Instagram: @AfrosInTheDiaspora
E49
3 feb 2026
43:47
It Was a Slip-Up… But Was It? | Reddit AITA
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E48
27 gen 2026
7:57
Housing 101 for Immigrants: Renting, Buying & Knowing Your Rights | Realtor Rose Lokiru
Finding safe, stable housing is one of the most important — and often most challenging — parts of settling into a new country. In this episode of Afros in the Diaspora: The Expert’s Corner, host Sarah Uwadiae sits down with Realtor Rose Lokiru for a practical, educational conversation about navigating the Canadian housing market as an immigrant. This episode breaks down what newcomers and long-settled immigrants need to know about renting, buying, tenancy rights, and protecting themselves from common pitfalls. From avoiding rental scams and understanding tenant protections to preparing for mortgage approval and exploring alternatives like rent-to-own or co-ownership, Rose shares clear, accessible guidance designed to help listeners make informed housing decisions. Whether you’re renting your first apartment, considering your first home purchase, or still finding your footing years after arriving in Canada, this conversation offers tools, clarity, and reassurance. What You’ll Learn Renting vs buying: how to decide what’s right for you Your rights and protections as a tenant in Canada How to identify rental scams and unfair landlord practices When and how to prepare for buying a home Government programs and incentives for first-time buyers What documents lenders look for in mortgage approval Saving strategies for a down payment Rent-to-own, co-ownership, and alternative paths to homeownership Common first-time buyer mistakes — and how to avoid them About the Guest Rose Lokiru is a licensed Realtor who works closely with immigrants, newcomers, and first-time buyers navigating the Canadian housing market. She is known for her education-first approach, helping clients understand their rights, avoid costly mistakes, and build long-term housing stability with confidence. About The Expert’s Corner The Expert’s Corner is a series within Afros in the Diaspora that provides educational insights, practical tools, and community-informed conversations to support immigrants — whether newly arrived or still finding their feet — as they navigate life in Canada. Disclaimer This episode is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, or professional advice. Listeners are encouraged to seek personalized guidance from qualified professionals for their individual situations.
E47
20 gen 2026
1:03:12
AITA - Should she prevent her son from travelling to Nigeria with his father?
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E46
14 gen 2026
8:52
From Not Speaking a Word of English to Becoming an Author, Speaker & English Communication Coach
Elvis Prince Tognia joins us for a deeply moving conversation about resilience, responsibility, and the power of communication. Born and raised in Cameroon, Elvis grew up in a family where resources were limited and education was only available to one child—the eldest. After completing university, he immigrated to the United States without speaking a word of English, while carrying the responsibility of supporting his family back home. In this episode, Elvis shares how learning English as an adult transformed his life and became the foundation of his purpose. Today, he is an author, keynote speaker, emcee, and communication coach who teaches others how to speak with confidence, clarity, and impact. We discuss his journey from survival to service, the mindset shifts that shaped his growth, and how communication became both his passion and his calling. This episode is a testament to what’s possible when resilience meets purpose—and when a voice is finally given space to rise. Enjoyed this episode? Subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss future conversations. 📺 Watch full episodes on YouTube 📸 Follow us on Instagram: @AfrosInTheDiaspora
E45
7 gen 2026
1:10:27
AITA Black Immigrant Edition - Accountability or Offense?
In this bite-sized Am I the Asshole? Black Immigrant Edition episode, we unpack a situation where someone dishes it out… but can’t take it when the same energy is returned. Send your anonymous stories to this link ~ bit.ly/4rMTayO ~ for a chance to be featured in a future episode. Don’t forget to follow Afros in the Diaspora on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, and wherever you get your podcasts. Follow us on Instagram and TikTok: @afrosinthediaspora Subscribe, share this episode, tag us, and join this growing community!
E44
23 dic 2025
3:43
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