Yes And Land

Yes And Land

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Luca and Seeing Problems Differently | Ryan Boswell on Perspective, Identity & Growth

Luca teaches us that the monsters we fear most often aren't monsters at all — they're just people we haven't understood yet. And sometimes the biggest reframe isn't about other people. It's about how we see the problems in front of us. Ryan Boswell — hedge fund general partner, serial entrepreneur, and one of the most connected young business minds in Utah — joins Ryan Gregerson to talk about building a career on perspective, not a plan. After dropping out of college, bouncing through an AI startup, a nonprofit, and a cold plunge business with three thousand dollars in the bank and payroll due Friday, Ryan has built his life by asking one simple question in every hard moment: Why is this happening for me? Using Pixar's Luca as our lens, we explore how limiting beliefs keep us on the ocean floor, what it takes to silence the Bruno in your head, and why the way you see the problem is the problem. 🎯 3 Actionable Takeaways Pause and Ask "Am I Being Pulled or Pushed?" — Take 15–20 minutes to evaluate whether you're forcing yourself into your current path or being naturally drawn toward it. Why it works: Pull creates sustainable momentum. Push creates burnout. Reframe "Why Is This Happening TO Me?" to "Why Is This Happening FOR Me?" — When something goes sideways, pause before reacting. Why it works: It shifts you out of victim mentality into what Ryan calls champion mentality — where you're solving the problem instead of suffering through it. Build the Muscle of Looking at Things Differently — Practice noticing the world around you with genuine curiosity. Why it works: The same muscle that helps you read a billboard differently is what helps you reframe stuck relationships, hard conversations, and your own inner critic. #YesAndLand #DisneyAdults #DisneyPodcast #LucaPixar #Luca #PerspectiveShift #MindsetMatters #EntrepreneurPodcast #SilencioBruno #RyanHoliday #DailyStoic #ExtremeOwnership #DisneyFans #PixarFans #BusinessConnections #PersonalGrowth #ChampionMindset

Dream Chasing and the Magic of Disney Imagineering | Bob Weis on Building Impossible Dreams

Dream Chasing is what Bob Weis spent four decades doing at Walt Disney Imagineering — and in this episode, he shares exactly what that journey looks like from the inside. Bob Weiss, former President of Walt Disney Imagineering, joins Ryan Gregerson to unpack the leadership philosophy, creative culture, and dream-chasing wisdom behind some of Disney's greatest parks and attractions — including Tokyo Disneyland, Shanghai Disneyland, Tower of Terror, Rise of the Resistance, and more. 🎯 3 Actionable Takeaways Seek Out Allies – Get collaborators who believe in your dream as much as you do. The best ideas go from "mine" to "ours" in the right room. Be Passionate Yet Flexible – Know what you want. Stay open to how it gets done. Keep a Positive, Collaborative Attitude – Failures don't disappear — they become part of who you are and show up in your next great thing. From working outdoor foods at Disneyland as a college student to leading a 1,500-person global creative team, Bob's story is a masterclass in what it means to pursue something worthy. He shares lessons from Marty Sklar, Bob Iger, Josh D'Amaro, and Stephen Covey — and the story of how he walked into Bob Iger's office to say Rise of the Resistance wasn't ready to open. This one is for every dreamer, builder, and leader who's ever been afraid to chase the thing that won't leave them alone. 📚 Get Bob's book Dream Chasing wherever audiobooks are sold (Bob narrates it himself). ABOUT YES AND LAND: Yes And Land explores the leadership lessons, relationship dynamics, and hard choices hidden in the stories we love. Hosted by Ryan Gregerson, a family law attorney at RCG Law Group, Disney enthusiast, and business coach for law firm owners at Altium Advisors, each episode connects familiar narratives to real-world wisdom you can actually use. New episodes every Thursday. #YesAndLand #DisneyAdults #DisneyPodcast #WaltDisneyImagineering #DreamChasing #BobWeiss #DisneyParks #Imagineering

National Treasure and the Courage to Declare | Ryan Gregerson

National Treasure — the 2004 Disney film — gets one thing exactly right: sometimes you have to declare your intention before you have any guarantee of success. Ryan Gregerson recorded this episode from Washington D.C., standing hours away from the actual Declaration of Independence at the National Archives, 80 days before America turns 250. 🎯 3 Actionable Takeaways 1. Read it — Read the Declaration of Independence this week as a personal assignment. Read the names. Let it land that these were real people who risked everything. 2. Name it — Identify one area of your life where courage is called for and you've been playing it safe. Write it down. 3. Declare — Write down one specific courageous action you'll take this week. Not someday. This week. In this solo episode, Ryan connects National Treasure's Ben Gates — and his "someone has to" moment — to the founding fathers, to Brené Brown on vulnerability, to James Clear on identity, and to his own first family law courtroom hearing. The thread through all of it: courage is not the absence of fear. It's declaring your conviction before the evidence is in. ABOUT YES AND LAND: Yes And Land explores the leadership lessons, relationship dynamics, and hard choices hidden in the stories we love. Hosted by Ryan Gregerson, a family law attorney at RCG Law Group, Disney enthusiast, and business coach for law firm owners at Altium Advisors, each episode connects familiar narratives to real-world wisdom you can actually use. New episodes every Thursday.

Encanto and Breaking Generational Trauma | Cindy Chia on Healing What Was Never Spoken

What if the pain your family never talked about is quietly running your life? Encanto shows us why. Mirabel's family had wounds buried under roles, expectations, and silence — and that's exactly what Dr. Cindy Chia has spent her career helping people uncover. 🎯 3 ACTIONABLE TAKEAWAYS Name It First – Identify the thing your family doesn't talk about. Trauma persists when avoided. Naming it breaks the cycle. Get Clear on What You Want – Do you want to pass this on, or change the story? Deciding gives you direction instead of keeping you stuck in anger. Take Ownership, Not Blame – You didn't cause the trauma, but you have the power to decide what happens next. HIGHLIGHTS Why Abuela's controlling behavior was survival, not villainy The real definition of a boundary: connection, not gatekeeping What Luisa's Surface Pressure reveals about always being the strong one Why Bruno was exiled for telling the truth — and how every family does this Shame vs. guilt: the clinical difference that changes how you heal TIMESTAMPS 0:00 – Cold open 1:13 – Welcome to Yes And Land 2:00 – Cindy's background: Malaysia, psychology, and childhood trauma 8:09 – Harvard fellowship to founding Aspire Psychological 15:34 – What Encanto is really about 18:24 – We Don't Talk About Bruno: the psychology of family silence 23:51 – Abuela's speech to Mirabel — projection explained 28:15 – Surface Pressure and the weight of being the strong one 30:05 – Why Mirabel's lack of a gift was exactly what the family needed 33:23 – Brene Brown's shame petri dish meets Encanto 36:11 – How to recognize intergenerational trauma in your own life 59:34 – Closing reflection 1:01:29 – 3 Actionable Takeaways ABOUT CINDY CHIA Dr. Cindy Chia is a licensed psychologist and founder of Aspire Psychological in Riverton, Utah and Las Vegas. Specializing in cultural and generational trauma, her clinical work and her own personal healing journey inform everything she does. Website: www.AspirePsychUtah.com ABOUT YES AND LAND Yes And Land explores leadership lessons and relationship dynamics hidden in the stories we love. Hosted by Ryan Gregerson — family law attorney, Disney enthusiast, and business coach. New episodes every Thursday. #YesAndLand #DisneyAdults #DisneyPodcast #Encanto #GenerationalTrauma #MentalHealth #Bruno #SurfacePressure #TraumaHealing #PsychologyPodcast 👉 Listen to Yes And Land on all podcast platforms 👉 Share with someone who grew up in a family where certain things were just never talked about

Beauty and the Beast and Taking On New Chapters | with Sybrina Ely from Kenbry Capital

What if the scariest chapter of your life is actually the one that sets you free? Beauty and the Beast shows us why. Belle chose curiosity over comfort, stepping into an uncertain castle to save her father. And that's exactly what Sybrina did when she left 25 years as a stay-at-home mom to launch Kinbry Capital. 🎯 3 Actionable Takeaways Be Present and Use What You Have – You don't need to search for new tools; leverage what's already accessible. Why it works: Belle befriended the enchanted objects and used the castle's resources to build the life she wanted. Use Your Past Experiences (Good and Bad) to Learn – Draw on both your Gastons and your Beasts. Why it works: Every lesson carries wisdom that propels you forward, even the painful ones. Choose Authenticity Over Approval – Ask if you're doing it for the world or for yourself. Why it works: Maurice stayed true to his inventor's heart, and Belle never apologized for loving books—authenticity always wins. In this episode, Sybrina, owner of Kimber Capital and former stay-at-home mom of 25 years, joins me to talk about what happens when you step into a new chapter with courage instead of certainty. Her journey mirrors Belle in Beauty and the Beast: comfortable life → call to adventure → facing fear and imposter syndrome → choosing curiosity → building something beautiful and authentic. Using Beauty and the Beast as our lens, we explore why Belle's willingness to look deeper—past appearances and first impressions—allowed her to see the truth beneath the surface. Similarly, Sybrina's choice to trust her unexplored potential and launch her own company shows the power of curiosity over comfort. HIGHLIGHTS Why first impressions rooted in fear keep us from courage The hidden cost of doing what the world wants versus what's authentically you Lessons from Beauty and the Beast about curiosity, authenticity, and transformation Sybrina's journey from 25 years as a stay-at-home mom to business owner Overcoming imposter syndrome when entering new industries How to be present, use what you have, and take that terrifying first step WHAT YOU WILL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE Why analyzing whether you're acting for yourself or for others is crucial before taking action How to use both positive and negative past experiences as tools for growth The power of speaking your goals out loud to create momentum ABOUT SYBRINA: Sybrina is the owner of Kimber Capital and a passionate advocate for the South Valley Chamber. After 25 years as a stay-at-home mom, she challenged herself to discover what she had to give to the world. Despite facing imposter syndrome daily, she embraced curiosity and courage to launch her own company. Connect with Sybrina: 🏡 Kimber Capital 🤝 South Valley Chamber ABOUT YES AND LAND: Yes And Land explores the leadership lessons, relationship dynamics, and hard choices hidden in the stories we love. Hosted by Ryan Gregerson, a family law attorney at RCG Law Group, Disney enthusiast, and business coach for law firm owners at Altium Advisors, each episode connects familiar narratives to real-world wisdom you can actually use. New episodes every Thursday. #YesAndLand #DisneyAdults #DisneyPodcast #BeautyAndTheBeast #DisneyPrincess #Authenticity #NewBeginnings #CareerChange #ImposterSyndrome 👉 Subscribe to Yes And Land with Ryan Gregerson on YouTube 👉 Listen to the full episode of Yes And Land on all podcast platforms 👉 Like, comment, and share with someone who is considering a bold new chapter in their life

Tangled - Manipulation vs Influence | with military interrogator Josh Emfield

Ever wonder if someone's being charming or manipulating you? Tangled shows us the difference. Mother Gothel kept Rapunzel locked away using fake love and manufactured urgency, while Flynn learned that real influence comes from genuine connection. That's exactly what Josh Emfield discovered as a military interrogator: manipulation breaks trust, but influence builds it. 🎯 3 Actionable Takeaways Slow Down Decisions – When pressured to sign or commit, say "I've made myself a promise not to sign anything right away." Why it works: It removes urgency and puts the power back in your hands. Replace "Yes, But" with "Yes, And" – Stop negating what others say. Why it works: "Yes, but" kills relationships; "yes, and" builds them through validation. Listen to Understand, Not Respond – Let others talk, ask what they're looking for, then confirm you heard them. Why it works: People feel heard, and you learn what they actually need. Episode Overview In this episode, Josh Emfield, a military interrogator and real estate broker, joins Ryan to talk about the fine line between manipulation and influence. His journey mirrors the contrast in Tangled: military training → learning interrogation psychology → realizing manipulation in wrong hands is dangerous → using influence ethically in real estate and relationships. Using Tangled as our lens, we explore how Mother Gothel uses manipulation tactics—manufactured urgency, isolation, gaslighting—while Flynn's transformation shows how genuine influence works. Similarly, Josh's expertise helps us identify red flags and build authentic connections instead. Key Topics Discussed The psychology behind manipulation vs. influence and how to spot the difference Body language secrets from a military interrogator (80% of communication is nonverbal) Why Mother Gothel and Lady Tremaine are master manipulators How to recognize when someone is using urgency to control you What You'll Learn How to identify manipulation tactics before you fall victim to them The specific body language cues that reveal someone isn't being truthful Why understanding people's motivators is the key to better relationships How to slow down high-pressure situations and reclaim your power About Josh Emfield Josh Emfield is a military interrogator, cryptolinguist, and real estate broker who specializes in understanding human behavior and communication. Fluent in Portuguese and Spanish, Josh combines his expertise in psychology, body language, and influence to help people navigate complex relationships and business transactions. He teaches body language courses and applies interrogation techniques ethically to build genuine connections. Josh lives in Utah with his wife and three sons, all of whom are learning Portuguese through an immersion program. About Yes And Land Yes And Land explores the leadership lessons, relationship dynamics, and hard choices hidden in the stories we love. Hosted by Ryan Gregerson, a family law attorney at RCG Law Group, Disney enthusiast, and business coach for law firm owners at Altium Advisors, each episode connects familiar narratives to real-world wisdom you can actually use. New episodes every Thursday. Subscribe & Follow 🎥 Watch on YouTube: Yes And Land with Ryan Gregerson 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast platform 💬 Join the conversation: #YesAndLand #DisneyAdults #DisneyPodcast

What Star Wars' Andor Teaches About Purpose-Driven Leadership With Top Audio Producer Just Blane

What if leadership finds you before you're ready? Andor isn't your typical Star Wars hero, and that's exactly what makes his journey such an important lesson for modern leaders. From Hollywood to Star Wars, this episode unpacks purpose, grit, and unexpected leadership. 3 ACTIONABLE TAKEAWAYS: Pivot with Purpose - When your path changes, ask "What am I optimizing for?" not "What went wrong?" Why it works: Reframing creates agency. Build for 10, Not 10 Million - Deep connection with a small community beats shallow reach. Why it works: Trust compounds; attention doesn't. Take the first step. Put your content out there. You don't need perfect, just the courage to start. Leadership doesn’t always arrive with a title. Sometimes it shows up as a moment that demands action. In this episode of Yes And Land with Ryan Gregerson, Ryan sits down with Just Blane, CEO of Ride The Wave Media and one of the most prolific audio producers in modern media, to explore what it really means to lead when you didn’t ask for the job. From growing up on a Tennessee farm to producing over 11,000 shows across iHeart, NBC, and Apple Music, Blane shares how curiosity, empathy, and perseverance shaped his career. Along the way, the conversation weaves in pop culture, Disney, and Star Wars’ Andor to reveal why the most powerful leaders are often the most reluctant ones. Whether you're leading a team, building a business, or trying to show up authentically in relationships, this conversation gives you practical frameworks grounded in both Disney magic and real-world leadership. Connect with Just Blane: 🔗 Ride the Wave Media: Click here 📱 LinkedIn: Click here 💬 Continue the conversation: What's YOUR biggest takeaway from Andor? Which of the 3 actions are you trying this week? What Disney movie/show should we analyze next? ABOUT YES AND LAND: Yes And Land explores the leadership lessons, relationship dynamics, and hard choices hidden in the stories we love. Hosted by Ryan Gregerson, a family law attorney, Disney enthusiast, and business coach for law firm owners. Each episode connects familiar narratives to real-world wisdom you can actually use. Here, we say "Yes" to the reality of yesterday and today. And we say "And" to the possibility, growth, and imagination of tomorrow. New episodes every Thursday. 👉 Subscribe to Yes And Land with Ryan Gregerson on YouTube for thoughtful conversations about growth, resilience, and what comes next. 🎧 Listen to the full episode of Yes And Land on all podcast platforms and share it with someone who believes connection still matters. #Andor #StarWars #DisneyPlus #DisneyForAdults #YesAndLand #ReluctantLeader #PurposeDriven

Elemental's Hidden Lesson: Emotional Intelligence in Leadership, and Why Fire & Water Teach Connection

What if emotional intelligence is the real superpower in a world full of automation? Elemental isn't just about fire and water, it's about learning to lead with authenticity and connection in a tech-driven age. 3 ACTIONABLE TAKEAWAYS: Ask yourself "What am I good at?" and write it down Ask your closest friend "What am I good at? What are my biggest strengths?" and write it down Then ask yourself, "What am I not good at?" and write that down too. This can help you prepare better when your weaknesses arise and know how to respond. In this episode, Miriam Dixon, Marketing Director at South Valley Chamber of Commerce and Disney College Program alum, joins me to explore Elemental's themes around emotional intelligence, authentic leadership, and staying human in automation-driven work. We discuss: Why emotional intelligence matters more than ever in the age of AI How the Disney College Program teaches you to "earn your ears" through service The difference between genuine connection and performative networking What Elemental reveals about leading through difference and discomfort How to navigate career pivots while staying true to your values Whether you're leading a team, building a business, or trying to show up authentically in relationships, this conversation gives you practical frameworks grounded in both Disney magic and real-world leadership. Connect with Miriam: 🔗 South Valley Chamber: Click here 📱 LinkedIn: Click here 💬 Continue the conversation: What's YOUR biggest takeaway from Elemental? Which of the 3 actions are you trying this week? What Disney movie should we analyze next? ABOUT YES AND LAND: Yes And Land explores the leadership lessons, relationship dynamics, and hard choices hidden in the stories we love. Hosted by Ryan Gregerson, a family law attorney, Disney enthusiast, and business coach for law firm owners. Each episode connects familiar narratives to real-world wisdom you can actually use. Here, we say "Yes" to the reality of yesterday and today. And we say "And" to the possibility, growth, and imagination of tomorrow. New episodes every Thursday. 👉 Subscribe to Yes And Land with Ryan Gregerson on YouTube for thoughtful conversations about growth, resilience, and what comes next. 🎧 Listen to the full episode of Yes And Land on all podcast platforms and share it with someone who believes connection still matters. #Elemental #DisneyAnalysis #EmotionalIntelligence #LeadershipLessons #DisneyForAdults #YesAndLand #AuthenticLeadership

Yes, And: Validation, Empathy, and the Power of Better Conversations

Episode Summary What happens when we stop responding to life, conflict, and pain with “but” and start responding with “yes, and”? In this opening episode of Yes And Land with Ryan Gregerson, Ryan introduces the core philosophy behind the podcast: validation as the starting point for growth. Drawing from personal experience, relationships, leadership, and lessons borrowed from improv comedy, Ryan explores how acknowledging someone’s lived experience creates space for empathy, connection, and meaningful conversation. This episode unpacks why even well-intentioned responses can feel dismissive, how curiosity outperforms judgment, and why being a peacemaker doesn’t mean avoiding disagreement. Inspired by storytelling, pop culture, and the creativity of shows like Whose Line Is It Anyway, Ryan reframes “yes, and” as both a communication skill and a life practice. From marriage and parenting to leadership and navigating hard seasons, this conversation invites listeners to honor what they’ve been through without staying stuck there. The goal isn’t fixing people or winning arguments, but creating space for hope, growth, and kindness. If you’re craving deeper conversations, better communication, and a mindset for moving forward without erasing the past, Yes And Land is your new landing place. Resources & References Whose Line Is It Anyway (improv comedy inspiration) Storytelling through Disney films Fantasy novels by Brandon Sanderson Listen, Subscribe & Connect 📺 YouTube 👉 https://YouTube.com/@yesandland 🌊 Visit Ride The Wave Media 👉 https://www.ridethewave.media 💛 Subscribe, follow, and share if this episode resonated with you. Your support helps grow conversations rooted in empathy, curiosity, and connection. Welcome to Yes And Land.

Robin Hood and Building Community | Andre Kradolfer

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What if building a thriving business means stepping out of your shell and into a community you didn't know you needed? Robin Hood answers that question through the eyes of an outlaw who discovers his true power comes not from acting alone, but from bringing people together. Andre Krodolfer, senior software architect and co-owner of Hearthside Games, learned that lesson the hard way, by moving between continents his entire childhood, finding constant belonging in Disney World, and eventually creating a third space where strangers become friends through the games they love. 🎯 3 Actionable Takeaways Get Curious Before You Get Convincing, Before pushing your views or ideas onto someone, ask genuine questions about why they believe what they believe or do what they do. Why it works: Understanding someone's perspective first creates the foundation for real connection and common ground, just like Robin Hood's willingness to see the humanity in everyone around him. Make It Human, Don't Categorize, Remember that whoever you're interacting with is just like you, a human being with their own story. Why it works: When you remove the categories and labels, you restore the humanity in the interaction, which is exactly what happens at Harside Games when competitors become friends through shared passion. Be Humorous and Lighten Up, In serious or tense situations, find ways to laugh and not take yourself too seriously. Why it works: Robin Hood and Little John face constant danger but find joy in the moment, which keeps them connected and resilient, the same levity that builds belonging in community spaces. 🔦 EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS Andre's journey moving between Bolivia, Peru, Ecuador, Mexico City, Germany, Russia, and Arizona, and how Disney World became his constant anchor The moment Andre realized he was making friends outside of work for the first time in his adult life through Disney Lorcana Why Harside Games exists: not to maximize profit, but to create a third space where people can belong and play the games they love The magic girly night story, women who found a safe community at Harside Games to bedazzle their decks and play Magic together, something they couldn't do anywhere else How Robin Hood brings people together not through grand gestures, but through genuine care and willingness to put himself at risk for others Friar Tuck's quiet heroism: ringing the church bell to keep hope alive even when the pews are empty The connection between WALL-E's curiosity and Andre's philosophy of approaching the world and other people with genuine wonder 👤 ABOUT ANDRE KRODOLFER Andre Kradolfer is a senior software architect and co-owner of Hearthside Games, a community-focused game store in Utah. Born in Bolivia and raised across six countries on four continents, he brings a unique perspective on belonging and connection. With his business partner Dan Langford, Andre created Harside Games not as a retail operation, but as a third space where people can find community, make friends, and play the games they love together. 📺 ABOUT YES AND LAND Yes And Land explores the leadership lessons, relationship dynamics, and hard choices hidden in the stories we love. Hosted by Ryan Gregerson, a family law attorney at RCG Law Group, Disney enthusiast, and business coach for law firm owners at Altium Advisors, each episode connects familiar narratives to real-world wisdom you can actually use. New episodes every Thursday.
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