Who Do You Need to Have a Car Ride Conversation With?

I had an unexpected aha moment when I started driving my kids to school each morning. Something about being in the car makes conversation happen. Whether it’s light and funny or deep and hard, they can’t help but talk.

It made me realize how desperately we need real conversations. The good ones. The uncomfortable ones. The honest, messy, healing ones. And maybe… they need to happen in a car.

After walking through a tough season with my teenage daughter and noticing some negative changes, I decided to try it intentionally. We got in the car and just drove. No agenda, no time limit. We kept going until we had both said everything that needed to be said. That drive changed in many positive ways.

So I want to ask you: Who do you need to take for a drive?

Maybe it’s your child. Maybe it’s your spouse. Maybe it’s a friend.

Whoever it is, and whatever that looks like for you, I highly recommend this method. Sometimes healing doesn’t need a big plan. Sometimes it just needs a tank of gas and an open road.