In this week’s episode of The Queerly Blax Show, I had a conversation with Jordan and Tony of the Surface Level podcast about living as a modern gay man. We talked about everything from coming out stories, stuggles with family, dating as a gay man and so much more. Check it out!

0:10 – Introductions by Jordan & Tony

1:52- Tony & Jordan’s coming out stories

8:49 – Parents and families as allies when you are gay

12:03- Helping parents accept LGBT children

13:56- The black LGBT burden

19:46- Talking about the Surface Level Podcast

24:10- Fat phobia in the gay community

26:36- Dating in a transient city (New York and LA)

31:10- Non monogamy in modern black LGBT dating

32:30- The process of self-reflection after a relationship ends

38:30- Are they gold star gay?

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