In this week’s episode of The Queerly Blax Show, I had a conversation with Jamila about her journey to understanding her sexuality, having children from a previous relationship, new engagement, and being a pastor’s daughter and coming into your sexuality with the whole church watching. Check it out!

1:20- Process of understanding her sexuality

5:08- Rumors in church that she was gay

8:25- First family member to help her come out

20:44- When she finally came out and why

24:54- The difference between bi-sexuality and demi-sexuality

40:06- Process of dating with children as a demisexual woman

50:04- Making her fiancé comfortable with her sexuality

56:39- Her stance on sexuality and faith

1:04:24- Advice to people struggling to come out