Pretty Vocal

por Stephanie Schutt

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Losing 100 Pounds Taught Me Discipline. Miscarriage Taught Me Surrender.

I grew up fat. By the time I got to college, I weighed around 238 pounds. Eventually, I lost roughly 100 pounds and I genuinely believe that experience changed the trajectory of my life in ways that had very little to do with the number on the scale. Losing that weight was one of the first times I learned what could happen when I changed my own behavior. I learned discipline, delayed gratification, consistency, and how to keep going long before anyone could see the results. I learned that confidence isn't something you magically find. Sometimes you build it by collecting evidence that you can trust yourself. And then life handed me something I couldn't outwork. After walking through four miscarriages, I had to confront a much harder truth: sometimes you can do everything right and still not get the outcome you desperately want. One experience taught me agency. The other taught me surrender. And somewhere in the tension between those two lessons is so much of the woman, and entrepreneur, I am today. In this episode, I'm talking about growing up overweight, losing and maintaining 100 pounds, the connection between discipline and self-trust, what miscarriage taught me about the limits of control, and why I believe you should still push yourself even when you're not guaranteed the outcome. Because there is a difference between accepting what isn't yours to control and leaving your own potential untouched. You don't get to control everything that happens in your life. But man, I want to know what happens when I take full responsibility for the parts that are mine.

Don’t Burn It Down Because You’re Lonely Inside of It

What happens when the thing you’ve committed to stops rewarding you emotionally? When the novelty wears off, relationships change, momentum dips, and the work starts to feel ordinary, it can get really easy to mistake discomfort for direction. In this episode, I’m talking about the emotional cost of staying, why loneliness can make escape look like clarity, and the very real difference between changing the vehicle and abandoning the destination. I’m also unpacking why I’ve stayed in this industry for nine years, what keeps me from reopening every decision in a hard season, and what I actually do when I feel disappointed, lonely, bored, or tempted to burn the whole thing down. We talk about the compound interest of staying, why you can’t shortcut tenure, how to stop letting absence become louder than presence, and why sometimes the answer isn’t leaving — it’s building again. This one is for the person who still believes in what they’re building, but needs a reminder that a hard season does not get to rewrite years of evidence. Because before you burn the house down, you might want to figure out what’s actually on fire.

Your Belief Has a Ceiling

What if the people you’ve decided would never want what you have are actually the exact people you should be talking to? I came home from Portugal with one belief completely challenged: the aces aren’t hard to find. We’re often taught to look for the obvious need... the person who needs more money, hates her job, wants more flexibility, or desperately needs something to change. But what about the woman whose life is already good? The high performer. The successful one. The woman with options, influence, ambition, and a proven ability to make things happen. Success doesn’t eliminate desire. In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between scanning for pain and scanning for capacity, why “I don’t want to bother her” might actually be rejection avoidance, how to identify the gap when someone doesn’t need saving, and why your opportunity is not an inconvenience. Because people don’t just buy products or opportunities, they buy change. And sometimes the change someone wants isn’t survival. It’s expansion. Most importantly, we’re getting into conviction: becoming an evangelist for something that genuinely changed your life without believing everyone has to want it. Because you cannot attract extraordinary people while apologizing for the vehicle you’re asking them to consider. Maybe you don’t need more people. Maybe you need a bigger belief about the people already in front of you. The aces aren’t hard to find. They’re hard to see when your belief is too small to imagine them saying yes.

The Grief of Getting What You Wanted

there’s a strange kind of grief that can come with getting exactly what you wanted. in this episode, i’m talking about the parts of growth and success we don’t say out loud enough — missing a simpler life you’d never actually choose to go back to, the loneliness that can come with becoming someone different, friendships changing, moving goalposts, and the realization that achievement changes your circumstances much faster than it changes you. we’re also talking about vision — why it’s dangerous, what happens once you’ve seen a bigger life for yourself, and why wealth, to me, has become less about what you can buy and more about what you’re free to release. because you can love the life you’ve built and still grieve parts of the life you left behind. you can be grateful and still want more. you can miss something without wanting it back. and sometimes the things that break your heart are the very things that fix your vision. this one is personal. let’s talk about the grief of getting what you wanted.

You Are the Bottleneck

Leadership isn't a title. It's a way of thinking. In this episode, I'm sharing seven leadership principles I recently taught my team—principles that challenge conventional wisdom and invite you to think differently about the way you lead, communicate, and build. For each principle, we unpack: The lie people commonly believe The uncomfortable truth underneath it The question that forces self-confrontation Whether you're building a business, leading a team, or simply trying to become someone others can trust, this episode will challenge the assumptions that quietly shape your decisions. In this episode, we discuss: Why leadership begins long before anyone gives you a title The hidden cost of seeking approval over respect Why clarity matters more than charisma The difference between being productive and creating real momentum How trust is built—and how it's lost Why developing people will always outperform managing people The questions every leader should ask themselves before expecting more from others If this episode challenged the way you think, share it with someone who's serious about becoming a better leader. And if you're enjoying Pretty Vocal, I'd be so grateful if you'd leave a rating and review. It helps more people discover the show and keeps these conversations going.

Stop Trying to Find Yourself

We've all heard the advice. "Go find yourself." But... what if you've been asking the wrong question? In this episode, I challenge one of the most common phrases in personal development and explore a different perspective on identity. What if you aren't lost? What if life isn't asking you to find yourself at all? Maybe the most defining moments of your life didn't create you—they introduced you to parts of yourself you had never been required to access before. We talk about the difference between temperament and character, why some parts of us seem deeply wired while others are forged through experience, and how labels, personality tests, and even self-awareness can quietly become limitations if we're not careful. This episode explores why: Identity isn't something you discover—it's revealed through the life you live. Some parts of you are gifts, while others are choices. Your first reaction is information, but your repeated response shapes who you're becoming. Familiar doesn't always mean authentic. Every season of life asks a different question—and your behavior is the answer. If you've ever wondered who you're becoming, questioned whether you've outgrown an old version of yourself, or felt like you're still searching for clarity, I hope this conversation gives you a different way to think about identity. Because maybe the person you've been looking for was never lost. Maybe you've just never stepped into the kind of life that would require that version of you to exist. — If this episode challenged the way you think, I'd love for you to share it with someone who's in a season of growth. And if you're enjoying Pretty Vocal, leaving a rating and review is one of the best ways to help more people discover these conversations.

the performance of authenticity

Everyone tells us to "just be authentic." But what if we've completely misunderstood what authenticity actually is? In this episode, Stephanie unpacks why authenticity has become one of the most overused—and performative—words on the internet. From curated vulnerability to manufactured relatability, she explores how we've started measuring authenticity by how much people reveal instead of whether their lives actually reflect what they believe. Drawing from one of the most transformative seasons of her own life, Stephanie shares what it looked like to navigate being misunderstood, losing important relationships, and discovering that clarity doesn't attract everyone—it filters everyone. If you've ever felt the pressure to soften your convictions, explain yourself endlessly, or become a version of yourself that's easier for other people to understand, this conversation will challenge the way you think about authenticity, leadership, and what it really means to find your voice. In this episode, we discuss: Why authenticity has become another performance. The difference between transparency and authenticity. Why vulnerability isn't the same as congruence. The hidden cost of living for other people's understanding. How clarity repels, attracts, and reveals the right people. Why the goal isn't to be understood by everyone—it's to live in integrity with your own convictions. If this episode resonated with you, I'd love for you to share it with a friend, leave a rating or review, and tag me on Instagram @stephanie.schutt so I can hear what stood out to you. Thanks for listening to Pretty Vocal.

The Parts of Me Success Couldn't Fix

In this episode, I'm sharing one of the biggest leadership lessons I've learned this year: emotional maturity isn't about never getting hurt, never getting it wrong, or never facing conflict. It's about what you choose to do after those moments happen. I'm opening up about the patterns I've had to confront in myself, what success couldn't fix, and the questions I've started asking instead. If you're building a business, leading people, creating online, or simply trying to become someone you can trust, this conversation is for you. We spend so much time asking how to become more influential. Maybe the better question is: Am I becoming someone who can be trusted with influence? In this episode, we talk about: Why success exposes what it doesn't heal What emotional maturity actually looks like The difference between intentions and impact Learning to take responsibility without becoming a victim Why not every misunderstanding gets resolved How to course-correct after you've gotten it wrong The questions I now ask myself in difficult situations Why leadership always begins with leading yourself If this episode challenged or encouraged you, I'd love to hear from you. Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanie.schutt If you're enjoying Pretty Vocal, leaving a rating and review is one of the best ways to help more people discover the show.

Your Feelings Are Terrible CEOs

We've been taught to make our biggest life decisions based on how we feel. But what if the voice you've been calling wisdom... is actually fear? In this episode of Pretty Vocal, we're unpacking the difference between instinct and conditioning, why your brain is wired to prioritize safety over growth, and how old survival strategies can quietly shape the decisions you're making today. Stephanie shares the psychology behind fear, stories from her own journey through losing 100 pounds, navigating career pivots, launching a podcast, and walking through the heartbreak of four miscarriages, all through the lens of one question: Who's actually making your decisions? If you've ever found yourself waiting until you feel more confident, more certain, more "at peace," this episode is for you. Because your feelings deserve a voice. They just don't deserve the final vote. In this episode: Why fear often sounds responsible—not fearful The difference between wisdom and conditioning How your brain develops protective patterns Why growth almost always feels unfamiliar What miscarriage taught Stephanie about fear, faith, and hope Why commitment creates momentum Three questions to ask before making your next big decision If this episode challenged the way you think, share it with someone who's standing in front of a decision they keep postponing. — Connect with Steph: Instagram: @stephanie.schutt If you're enjoying Pretty Vocal, leaving a rating and review is one of the best ways to help the show reach more people. Thank you for being here.

The Myth of Balance

In this episode, I'm unpacking why I believe "balance" has become one of the biggest myths we've sold ourselves, the cultural guilt surrounding screen time and motherhood, why I don't buy into the backlash against ambition, and the real reason I built a business in the first place. This isn't an episode about working more. It's about getting honest about what the life you say you want is actually going to require. Because maybe the problem isn't that you're out of balance. Maybe it's that you've been taught to feel guilty for building something that matters. In this episode: Why balance has become a socially acceptable way to avoid talking about tradeoffs The motherhood guilt surrounding screen time—and why I see it differently Why we've confused optics with outcomes My thoughts on hustle culture, ambition, and effort Why conversations about money make people uncomfortable The real reason I pursued entrepreneurship Why freedom is less about luxury and more about having options The foundation nobody sees while you're building the life everyone admires If this episode challenged you, send it to someone who needs permission to think differently about the life they're building.

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