What do you think marriage is supposed to look like—and how much of that belief came from your family, church, movies, social media, or relationships you watched growing up?

After 17 years of marriage, Terrell and Brooke look back at what they thought marriage would be versus what marriage has actually required from them.

From fairy-tale expectations and ideas about soulmates to conflict, parenting, intimacy, individuality, communication, and personal growth, this conversation explores what happens when two people realize that marriage isn’t about staying the same—it’s about learning how to grow alongside someone who is changing too.

We also discuss:

* Whether we would swipe right on each other if we met today

* Where our original ideas about marriage came from

* The marriage expectations that quickly disappear ...