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Should you stay or should you go? It might be the loneliest question a person ever asks — and most people ask it at 2 AM, alone, terrified of getting it wrong.
This week Patrick sits down with Karen Covy — divorce coach, mediator, lawyer, and author of When Happily Ever After Ends — for the conversation almost nobody has honestly. Karen has spent decades in the middle of the storm, and she's here to say the quiet part out loud: divorce is not one-size-fits-all, you have far more control than you think, and "staying for the kids" is usually not the gift we tell ourselves it is.
We get into the real stuff: how to tell whether your marriage is actually over or just going through something hard. How to make the decision without letting fear or guilt make it for you. How to get through a divorce without blowing up your finances, your kids, or your mental health — even when the other person is fighting dirty. And the part that rarely gets said: the shame so many men carry around divorce, and why hiding it only makes it heavier.
If you're on the fence, in the middle of it, or just love someone who is — this one's for you.
feel more, hide less.
🔗 Karen Covy: karencovy.com 📖 When Happily Ever After Ends — available now 🎧 New episodes of GotIt every Friday at 9 AM ET.
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