Before making an important decision, it can help to slow down and ask three simple questions:

Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it wise?

Use the Three-Part Check explores a simple way to create a pause between an impulse and a decision.

Is it true?

Before repeating something, reacting to an accusation, or making an assumption, ask whether you actually know that it's true.

Is it necessary?

Not everything that is true needs to be said.

Not every disagreement needs to become an argument.

Not every thought needs to become a message.

And is it wise?

Even when something is true and worth saying, consider whether this is the right time, place, and way to say it.

This simple check can apply to conversations, relationships, work, social media, and everyday de ...