Have you ever heard of the 80/20 in relationship/partnership?

It's a theory that states we can only get 80% of our wants and needs from a healthy relationship while the remaining 20% - you need to provide for yourself.

I call bullsh*t.

That number should really be flipped the other way around. We should be expecting about 80% of our wants and needs to be met by ourselves and maybe 20% to be met by our partners.

I believe the opposite breeds co-dependency.

We are living in a time where we are being asked to fully show up in our lives in a way that has never been asked of us before.

That journey to having the courage to do so requires shadow work, leaps of faith, and an insatiable thirst for self-mastery.

In order to fully step into the highest expression of ourselves and our lives, we must be in rel ...