In this episode of The Relationship Pod, Sarah introduces Aanu Ojo, the newest member of The Secure Method team. She’s a Clinical Psychologist, Relationship Coach, and Trauma Specialist who has spent the last six years helping people heal relational wounds, break free from insecure attachment patterns, and build secure, healthy connections.

Aanu opens up about how her curiosity and childhood experiences in a tense, religiously strict household led her to psychology, first as a way to understand herself, and later as a way to help others name and validate their own stories. Through her work, she’s seen how powerful it is when someone can finally say, “This isn’t okay, and I deserve better.”

She shares her thoughts on the healing power of relationships, the importance of learning to trust your gut, and why true healing doesn’t happen in ...