Today’s episode is about why we should all immediately stop trying to fix or save other people, including ourselves. I define what this means and the subtle differences of knowing when to help and identifying if it's unhealthy patterning vs. authentic altruism. This doesn’t mean we don’t help people or care about people. It doesn’t mean we stop healing or doing the hard but rewarding soul-growth work of looking at ourselves including our shadow, our strength, or our patterns. It doesn’t mean we still don’t let someone die in front of us if we know CPR and they're having a cardiac arrest. It does mean we need to shift the lens we look through. It starts with a subtle shift in our perception that has a ripple effect on how we view others, ourselves, the world.