Hey there! Thank you for clicking. Welcome to another installment of Musing Interrupts. The auditory experience that hopefully leaves you wanting to ask questions and maybe even share your answers because this isn’t even half of the conversation. Today, Making Friends after Kindergarten. Is it possible and/or even desirable?

I’ll start with the practicality of making friends after your 30s. It’s not. People are generally not forthcoming, their guards are up, Shields up, Scotty! I have a few choice words, not politically correct, which come to mind. Basically, several adults are pusillanimous and prove we have never actually escaped Hobbes’ state of nature. Whatever is behind this is more of a chicken and the egg situation. The question might be: were people hurt and therefore decided to shut the world out, or are people i ...