Why do some people check in on you when you're not around but seem distant or dismissive when you're right in front of them? In this video, I explore the idea that some people struggle to hold space for others' emotions in real time. Instead of engaging with discomfort, they opt for a safer distance—offering concern from afar while avoiding deep connection up close. If you've ever felt invalidated or unseen in these interactions, this video breaks down why it may happen.