When I was younger, I used to be a terrible gossip, I loved it, and I loved the drama of it. You know what I mean? The hushed voices, the secretive admissions and the disclosures, “she said…. Blaa blaa” “ooooh no she didn’t did she?” etc, do you get the idea? It was fascinating and exhilarating. If we were talking about another person not present, well that did not matter because they were not present, they were not to know, were they?

I never saw this as a negative thing at all. However, it is negative in its energy. If what you say behind a person’s back would hurt them if they were to hear it, then energetically the damage has been done. The energy behind what you say, if you are being kind or being mean, radiate off you and brings that energy back to you at some point. A hurtful word ca ...