How do you actually know if you're raising a resilient kid? In this episode of The Parent Support Circle, Curtis and RJ dig into one of the questions parents quietly worry about most — and the answer isn't what most of us think.

Curtis opens with a real moment from his own house: his eleven-year-old daughter London auditions for the lead in her school play, doesn't get it, and comes home devastated. RJ, whose adult children Josh and Amanda are now thriving in the real world, shares what he sees looking back — the moments that actually built their resilience, and the ones he wishes he'd handled differently.

Together they break down what resilience really means, the well-meaning “rescue trap” that quietly builds fragility instead, four practical building blocks any parent can start using tonight, and a rapid-fire round of real listener  ...