Neva Coleman was only a few months old when her father was killed on 9/11.

In this episode of Ghosted, we talk about what it means to grow up with a loss you can't remember but can never escape. While many people say grief gets easier with time, Neva shares how her grief has almost worked in reverse, becoming more complicated as she's gotten older and learned more about the father she never had the chance to know.

We talk about the unique challenges of grieving someone lost on 9/11, a tragedy that feels both deeply personal and publicly owned. From working in the World Trade Center to navigating the assumptions, politics, and strange behaviors that surround the day, Neva offers a perspective few people get to hear.

We also dive into sobriety, identity, and the versions of ourselves we leave behind. Because for Neva, being gho ...