In this episode of G’day Gay, Russell and Paul dive deep into the psychology, dynamics, and allure of dating “daddies” in the gay community. For Russell, dating an older man once provided a sense of stability and mentorship he couldn’t find in younger partners. He opens up about his experience navigating the complexities of dating a “daddy” and what he learned about attraction, age, and personal growth. Paul, on the other hand, talks about his ongoing attraction to older men, exploring the appeal that “daddies” have for many gay men – from their confidence and life experience to a sense of authority that can feel comforting or grounding.

Throughout the episode, they break down how “daddy issues” can play out in relationships, especially when a power dynamic is involved. The hosts discuss how an age gap can sometimes lead to an unba ...