What happens when you stop asking, “What am I doing wrong?” and start asking, “Is this right for me?”

This episode was inspired by a beautiful conversation with my teacher, Lori Wilson, that left me with a collection of powerful aha moments about my own healing, self-trust and the way I move through life.

This summer, I chose to allow. Instead of forcing clarity or trying to figure out what came next, I gave myself space to be present, pay attention and notice where I was pushing, resisting or clenching. What unfolded was a deeper awareness of what happens when we stop forcing and start trusting.

I also realized how much my questions have changed. After decades of asking, “What did I do wrong?” I’m now asking, “Is this what I really want?” “Is this in alignment with who I am and who I’m becoming?” and “What comes next?” The shif ...