Why do some people become people pleasers? Why do we struggle to set boundaries, silence our own needs, attract the same types of people, or repeat the same painful patterns in relationships, friendships, family, and even the workplace?

In this powerful episode of Coffee Charged Conversations, Mike sits down with Dr Onke Mazibuko, psychologist, therapist, author, and deep thinker, to unpack the concept of soul wounds - the hidden emotional scars that shape how we love, connect, perform, give, receive, and survive.

Dr Onke explains how our earliest years can create emotional templates that follow us into adulthood. The way we learned to receive love, give love, seek approval, avoid rejection, and survive pain often becomes the way we show up in our relationships later in life.

This conversation explores people ple ...