Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2, Episode 154: Adoption Match Phone Calls When choosing an adoptive family, sometimes it takes more than looking through adoption profiles.  A telephone call with the adoption agency between the birth mother and the adoptive family can produce tremendous results.   Pictures and words can only go so far, sometimes we need more to make a decison, espcially one that involves the choice of an adoptive family.  A little phone call can go a long way.