What does it really mean to start over after leaving an abusive relationship? In Episode 96 of After the Quiet, I share what life looked like after selling our family home and moving in with my mother while my ex settled into a new house. I talk about the heartbreaking reality of trying to reconnect with my sons, believing I had to spend money to earn their love, the challenges of qualifying for a mortgage without a separation agreement, and the joy of finally buying my own home just before my 40th birthday. This episode explores post-separation abuse, coercive control, parental alienation, reunification therapy, and the emotional journey of rebuilding a life after domestic abuse. If you've ever wondered what comes after leaving, this episode offers an honest look at the challenges—and the hope—of starting over.