This week, Amir and Laila break down the ongoing theme of control in 90 Day Fiancé, from Sarper’s new life under Shekinah's strict rules to Stevi’s over-the-top reaction to Mahdi's honesty. Sarper’s excitement about life in LA comes to a screeching halt when Shekinah reminds him that his independence is officially canceled. Meanwhile, Stevi flips out after Mahdi admits he once thought about staying in the U.S. even if things didn’t work out—because how dare he have a thought?

Elsewhere, Jordan’s manipulation tactics reach new heights as she guilt-trips Mark into second-guessing his future with Mina, and Sean’s lack of enthusiasm for marriage has Amir and Laila wondering why he’s doing this at all.