In this episode of Burning the Ships, I sit down with Carrie Copenhaver — a Virginia Beach-based real estate agent, investor, and longtime member and former president of TRIG (Tidewater Real Estate Investors Group) who has spent nearly two decades building a portfolio on her own terms.

Carrie shares how she went from forensic chemist — working in a government lab where mediocrity was the expectation — to becoming a full-time real estate investor and agent alongside her husband Mike. She opens up about the unconventional path that got her here: a brief detour into gym ownership, years of studying real estate before pulling the trigger, and the mindset shift that changed everything.

We also dive into how Carrie has intentionally avoided the "scale at all costs" trap, building a lean, flexible business focused on creative financing, shor ...