This month on Wellish, we’re talking about magnetism and confidence, but not the kind that requires becoming hotter, cooler, more mysterious, or completely unbothered.

In this very casual Confessions of a Wellish Girly episode, I’m yapping about why I chose this theme, the ways I’ve caught myself chasing validation, people, opportunities, and proof that I’m doing enough, and what I actually want confidence to mean instead.

We’re getting into becoming the chooser instead of constantly trying to be chosen, pursuing what you want without making the outcome determine your worth, and learning how to have your own back even when you’re awkward, uncertain, rejected, or still figuring it out.