You’re Not “Just That Way”: How t...

You’re Not “Just That Way”: How to Rewrite the Identity You’ve Been Living with Jessica Graham

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Wellish por Sarah Ritondale
T4 · E221
4 mar 2026
54:57

Notas del episodio

So many of us are living identities we never consciously chose.

The “good girl.”

The people pleaser.

The anxious one.

The responsible one.

In this episode of Wellish, I’m sitting down with narrative advisor and identity coach Jessica Graham to unpack how the stories we formed about ourselves, often in childhood or during our hardest moments, quietly shape the way we show up in relationships, work, and life.

We talk about why so many people struggle to answer the question “Who am I?” outside of roles, how emotional outsourcing and people pleasing can keep you stuck in survival mode, and why rewriting your identity isn’t about positive thinking, it’s about radical honesty and self trust.

You’ll learn how to identify the stories running your life, externalize patterns that no longer serve you, and begin rewriting a version of yourself that actually aligns with who you are.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re performing your life instead of living it, this conversation will help you start peeling back the layers and reclaiming your real identity.

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