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Because we screw, that doesn’t mean I do! TFYM? Just because we had a great time sexually and the vibe was high, I’m now sober and realize it was just a one time thing! How do I severe ties with someone who I don’t see in my future plans without being disrespectful and rude? It was just great sex but what’s next ? Don’t let lustful actions make you bite off more than you can chew Great sex doesn’t equate to being a great partner 2. Being upfront about your true intentions! NSA, FWB, or just Dates be honest with yourself and the person of interest that will save a lot of trouble and headaches Don’t exchange information or plan to meet until you’re sure 3. Being completely honest about where things stand with you and potential dating partner! Be realistic about your wish list and don’t settle If you lower your expectations blame yourself Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");
Are you religious meaning you congregate with your perspective religious choice and freedom? Or do you have a relationship with GOD outside of a religious organization? Do you congregate or fellowship within your chosen religion or have a separate relationship with GOD? Do you attend church ? Fondest and darkest memories attending religious services Aunt S, L Sunday morning routine 2. Are there any reasons why you chose that particular path? The truth is I’m tired Being used for their glory and profit I no longer feel ashamed or condemned Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");
They say opposites attract! But how far is too far adjacent! In regard to compatibility how much do you prefer to have in common with potential life partner? Why being opposite may work in relationships The adventure of always guessing the next move Sometimes having your own identity outside of us is helping to remaining you at the core When we both think or act the same it gets boring 2. The competitive nature of men and some women( cooking story) When you share similar interests or hobbies it can become competitive When friendly competition can lead to resentment Now things are getting personal leave my mother out of this Key Take Aways 3. Finding a happy middle ground in your relationship Learning to accept that someone will be better and thats ok (we together?) Allowing spouse to take the lead in shared interests in which they excel despite your efforts Realizing that what you do good separately can be great together Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");
Welcome to well since we’re here and in todays episode we discuss; Who do I believe I mean versus who I really meant to someone else? Understanding your value and worth as it pertains to interconnected people interactions! Am I a place holder? Accepting your position or role in someone else’s life Having realistic expectations of the role you play in other people lives across all aspects! Expectations on the role you play in other people lives Setting and receiving boundaries from other people Categories you should be careful of 2. After realizing your role(either by asking, summarizes by actions or inactions) if you get hurt who’s the blame? Once you are certain your position in someone life if it’d not for you let it go you will thank me later Once you are placed in one of those aforementioned categories you will regret sticking around especially if you have ulterior motives You can pretend its ok for now but someday you will face the music Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");
What you heard is not what I meant! When you internalize your partners truth and wish they lied to coddle you and your feelings Easy on that salt and pepper shaker bitch Sometimes the truth is painful so be prepared if you seek answers 2.Learn to not only listen but to hear! Don’t listen to respond. When you become defensive and listen to rebuttal but not actually to learn what the real issues are This perpetuates a never ending cycle of resentment that may lead to passive aggressiveness and sometimes abuse 3. I stand by what I said I just wish I communicated it more effective Never apologize for what you mean However you can apologize by the message delivery or tone If you apologize and its not sincere you are being an enabler to pacify your partners feelings and this complicates the situation “Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");
Having expectations that aren’t merited in our personal relationships! Wanting the lions share of the harvest and haven’t sowed a seed Steak and lobster on my dime ? Can I get a number Double standards in our community 2. If you was a ain’t shit family member don’t expect shit parents included Absenteeism in my life but present for the rewards and benefits Im financially stable because of my work ethics inspire of you! You inspired me indirectly Now that your health is failing you want to forge a healthy relationship with me? 3. It’s okay to be selfish you should try it sometime! Self sacrifice isn’t the holy grail (if I’m not good we ain’t good) Tired of being on the back burner on standby for everyone else needs Treat yourself well cause Cleary they aren’t Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");
***Sweetest Day Special and Podcast Sneak Peek*** Ways to show your spouse you love them with non monetary gifts! Budget friendly gifts that shows thought and consideration. Saying I love and appreciate you usually works! “Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");
Welcome to well since we’re here and in todays episode we discuss; The Ways ,I as a Gay POC may have to navigate the world in,“This is not a test!” Ways I have to minimize who I am in order to remain respected Pretending to be straight or overly masculine Overly feminine or a like a caricature of oneself (think Wanda, sheneneh, madea, quite the opposite of Vera because other variety or skits shows like Seinfeld for example). Recall hearing the story about family matters Heyyyyy bitch, Im not your girlfriend ! It's important to be authentic and true to yourself. Pretending to be someone you're not in order to gain respect can be emotionally taxing. It's better to find a balance between staying true to your identity and earning respect from others who appreciate you for who you are. Embracing diversity and individuality is essential for a more inclusive society. 2. Being uncomfortable situations and they are oblivious Barber shops, locker rooms, or men in general Having an outer body experience, Being a fly on the wall Some extra flamboyant or obviously gay appearing because there are some feminine straight men out here and that kinda coined the metro sexual and the fellas roast him and expect you to laugh not knowing that’s your bro or sis or whatever pronoun they prefer! Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");