We Married The Family

We Married The Family

por Dr. Nadia

Superación personal Salud mental

Temporada 1

Episode #11 | Confession of a DIL: “I don’t know who I am anymore!”

Today’s episode is a confession episode, it's a very common experience that daughters-in-law go through: a loss of self. Someone sent this in sharing that since she's been married, she doesn't know who she is anymore, if you can relate to this woman then this episode is for you too! I share some reasons why daughters-in-law might be experiencing a loss of identity: childhood upbringing, fitting-in, role-overload and being other-facing. I also share ways to re-connect and re-discover yourself. If you’d like to send in a confession to discuss in a future episode you can DM me @spiritual.psychologist or e-mail me: nadia@spiritualpsychologist.co.uk To join the DIL’s membership click here: https://spiritualpsychologist.co.uk/we-married-the-family Or book in for a session: https://spiritualpsychologist.co.uk/

Episode #10 | “Just Be Patient” Harmful or helpful advice?

Today’s episode is about the virtue of patience and how it has been inaccurately adopted to spiritually bypass the real issues. Recognise whether you are harming yourself (or someone else) by giving them this advice. And learn what true patience is from a spiritual perspective. To join the DIL’s membership click here: https://spiritualpsychologist.co.uk/we-married-the-family Or book in for a session: https://spiritualpsychologist.co.uk/

Episode #9 | I Feel Like I Don’t Exist: Invisibility of a DIL

Today’s episode explores the ways a DIL feels invisible in the family and her marriage. From sheer ignorance of her experiences due to tradition, to invalidation and dehumanisation. I'll share some pointers on how to overcome this and improve the dynamics for a husband, the wife and the in-laws. To join the DIL’s membership click here: https://spiritualpsychologist.co.uk/we-married-the-family Or book in for a session: https://spiritualpsychologist.co.uk/

Episode #8 | Abusive In-Laws: Coercive Control

This week’s episode comes with a warning because it is about abuse. Take it slow, especially if it’s close to home, seek support if you need it. I share information about this insidious type of abuse that can go undetected for a long time. You’ll learn about the key indicators of Coercive Control and how it might show up for a daughter-in-law. If you, or someone you know, is going through this below are some organisations you can reach out to and the Domestic Abuse Hotline (all UK based) Women’s Aid: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/what-is-domestic-abuse/coercive-control/ Refuge: https://refuge.org.uk/i-need-help-now/coercive-control/ https://mensadviceline.org.uk/male-victims/what-is-domestic-abuse/coercive-control/ National Domestic Abuse Helpine: 0808 2000 247 To join the DIL’s membership or book in for therapy visit my website: https://spiritualpsychologist.co.uk

Episode #7 | Confession of a DIL: "I do my laundry in the middle of the night"

Today's episode explores a confession sent in by a daughter-in-law. Most people won't have to think twice about when they do their laundry. But for DIL's it's an invisible weight, something they may create new, and seemingly unusual, routines for. I touch on multiple factors that are at play here: Hypervigilance, Avoidance Coping and Boundary Ambiguity. If you have a confession you want to share you can e-mail me: nadia@spiritualpsychologist.co.uk or send me a DM on IG: @spiritual.psychologist Join the DIL's membership group here: https://spiritualpsychologist.co.uk/we-married-the-family

Episode #6 Your Seat At The Table | To stay seated or leave?

This week’s episode is inspired by a client session. I present the well-known metaphor of taking your seat at the table, or leaving a table that doesn’t respect you, in relation to in-laws. The people seated around your table, the way meals are served and shared, the conversations that happen at your table, will be unique to you and the family you’ve gone into. But if things are less than satisfactory, what do you do? I explore some considerations using the metaphor of the table. Thinking about proximity of people, your authenticity, boundaries and self-worth. Thinking about what the process of change looks like at your table. And when you might want to leave your seat altogether. To join the DIL’s membership visit www.spiritualpsychologist.co.uk

Episode #5 Privacy Issues Part 2: Emotional Privacy | To Share or Not To Share…?

In part 2 of Privacy Issues with in-laws I cover the emotional dimension. This is all about your personal boundaries, how much do you share of yourself with your in-laws? How do you and your husband manage conflict whilst living with his family? And what do you do when a family member, or your partner, has betrayed your trust by sharing your feelings with others? I address these questions and give you insight into the psychology of openness and vulnerability, and the psychological impact of prying in-laws! As well as sharing some tips on how to navigate all of this to have better relations. To join the DIL's membership visit www.spiritualpsychologist.co.uk

Episode #4 Privacy Issues: Physical Space "Have you been intimate yet?"

This weeks episode is Part 1 of a 2 part series on Privacy Issues when living with in-laws. I cover the major issues that arise around physical space including intimacy issues, shared space and boundaries. And I share some things that you and your partner need to do in order to maintain your privacy and build a close connection as husband and wife, even whilst living with the family.

Episode of #3 Confessions of a DIL: "I Hate my Husband"

In this episode I explore a confession sent in by a follower on Instagram. What do you do when you hate your husband? Why would you hate him in the first place? I unpack some of this in today's episode. The confessions sent in have no context so I give different perspectives and different ways of addressing the issue. You can join the DIL's membership group by visiting: www.wemarriedthefamily.com

Episode #2 DIL's Position in an Unhealthy Family Hierarchy

In this episode you'll learn about an unhealthy family dynamic of rigid hierarchies and how that contributes to mistreatment of DIL's. To join the DIL's membership visit my website: www.wemarriedthefamily.com Doors close for the first round on Sept 20th so get in early and get 50% off an annual membership!

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