How to Find Yourself Again When Y...

How to Find Yourself Again When You’ve Lost Yourself with Chelsea Ann O’Brien

The Confident Woman Podcast por Rachel Brooks
E395
7 oct 2026
30:56

Notas del episodio

Have you spent so long being the woman everyone depends on that you don’t know who you are outside of what you do for them?

You can be capable, independent, and successful while realizing the life you’ve built no longer reflects what matters to you.

In this episode of The Confident Woman Podcast, Rachel Brooks joins mother, author, and board-certified family nurse practitioner Chelsea Ann O’Brien to explore identity, inherited expectations, and redefining success.

Chelsea shares how divorce and motherhood challenged her priorities, drawing from her books, The Feminine Effect and The Feminine Frequency, to discuss feminine nature and receiving support. Rachel shares how grief challenged her identity, why she walked away from a working relationship, and how faith helped her open the heart she’d closed to protect herself.

What we get into

  • How family beliefs shape who you think you have to be
  • Why independence can be both a strength and a form of protection
  • Chelsea’s perspective on reconnecting with feminine nature
  • Defining your values and setting boundaries without proving your worth
  • Rachel’s “just because I could doesn’t mean I should” realization
  • Feeling safe, seen, and secure while learning to receive support

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Connect with Chelsea Ann O’Brien

Explore The Feminine Effect, The Feminine Frequency, and Chelsea’s work: Website | Books and resources | Instagram

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Palabras clave

identity
starting over
becoming
faith-based business
women healing becoming
becoming the confident woman
midlife
midlife changes
feminine energy
femininity