In the episode, Brooke and Lola engage in a "this or that" game where they explore various preferences within the lifestyle. Here are some of the choices they discuss:

• Playing with couples or singles that they already know versus meeting new couples.
• Planned encounters versus spontaneous ones.
• Attending hotel takeovers versus house parties.
• Participating in local events versus traveling for events.
• Engaging with older partners versus younger ones.
• Enjoying packed parties versus chill, intimate vibes.
• Using group chats versus private texting for communication.
• Preferences for lights on or lights off during encounters.

Most swingers agree, they love the thrill of tried-and-true companions, but the irresistible excitement of new connections keeps the lifestyle lively.