Stop Parenting & Start Coaching

Stop Parenting & Start Coaching

por Nate Crandall and Steve Galley

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Parents: Do Your Teens Feel Unlucky?

Hey Parents--it's your lucky day!! Oh that was a bad dad joke but please do stick around and maybe your luck, or our luck, will change! In this episode of The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast, we tackle the fascinating subject of luck based on a few concepts we have gleaned from the following book that believe it or not, impact you AND your teens: "Conscious Luck: 8 Secrets to Change Your Fortune" by Gay Hendricks (he wrote The Big Leap--highly recommended!!) and Carol Kline. Stay tuned as we hit the following big ideas, keys, or four leaf clovers: Luck is a perspective that we have on events. Labels like 'lucky' or 'unlucky' can limit our ability to see the potential gifts in a situation. Guilt can be a barrier to feeling lucky and deserving good things. Helping teenagers shift their thinking and beliefs can improve their perception of luck. Neutral thinking and considering the potential gifts in every situation can lead to a more positive perspective on luck. And all of this leads us into Episode 64 next week where we discuss how we can create our own luck. Juicy stuff! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Hey there Very Important Parents! We are upping our game in 2024 as we strive to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Please hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or elsewhere). And, you can now watch the show on YouTube). New episodes drop every Monday. We would love it and be so grateful if you posted a glowing 5 star review along with a helpful comment for other listeners on what you are learning (and hopefully incorporating) from the show. After all, we created it just for you and as always, moms and dads, we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! -Nate & Steve

Would You Rather Juggle Chainsaws or Bowling Pins?!

NOTE: This is a do-over from a previously published episode of the same title and subject. Due to some faulty recording and technical issues, that upload was awful and did not meet our high audio quality standards. So here we go again. Please enjoy the cleaner, new, and improved version! Welcome back or welcome to The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! Are you a juggler? Now for you non-jugglers before you answer no, ask yourself "Am I a parent?" If you answered "Yes!" then guess what? You ARE a juggler! And if you're the parent of a teen athlete or performer you are doing your best acrobatics as you juggle family, school, sports, and performance activities for the kids you love so much. So let's dive into the circus of juggling the chainsaws and bowling pins of parenting life! We'll then work our way up a Ladder and then climb back down before we fall off. Eventually we really just want to put down the chainsaws, bowling pins, and ladders so we can pick up The Wheel. The Wheel is really where juggling can end and a smooth ride begins. The Wheel is all about prioritization, clarity, and confidence, baby! And if you're a parent, you know those are things you sometimes feel are in short supply. Let's shift that! Thanks for listening! Enjoy! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Hey there Very Important Parents! We resolve to up our game in 2024 as we strive to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Please hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts--while it lasts, and now you can watch the show on YouTube). New episodes drop every Monday. We would love it and be so grateful if you posted a glowing 5 star review along with a helpful comment for other listeners on what you are learning (and hopefully incorporating) from the show. After all, we created it just for you and as always, moms and dads, we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! -Nate & Steve

Parents: Should You Let Your Kids Win?

Today on The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast we entertain the very fun and intriguing question of whether you should let your kids win when competing with them as parent/kid, parent/teen, and for Steve, grandpa (Pops!)/young grandson! This like many other parenting, uh coaching decision is very kid/teen specific and requires some thought on your part. We may not have all of the answers on this but we do have some fun stories and some compelling questions to make you think! We thank for being here and we hope you'll gain some value! Should you let your kids beat you? Should you let your kids win?! Something good to think about as you level up your parenting game by coaching more and parenting less. Let's goooo! Enjoy! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Hey there Very Important Parents! We are striving to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Please hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and on YouTube--click here if you want to watch the episode). New episodes drop every Monday. And...if you love the show, we would love it and be so grateful if you posted a glowing 5 star review along with sharing it with a few Parental Unit friends who would love it too. And as always, moms and dads, we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! -Nate & Steve

Have You Fallen in Love with the Storybook Ending?!

Thanks for joining us on The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! We're Nate & Steve and we get pretty nerdy and jiggy about helping parents to help their teen athletes and performers to thrive! In today's show we talk about the storybook endings we are not only attracted to but sometimes fall in love with. And along the way we're going to talk Olympics since it is the summer of 2024 and the world's best are competing in France. Yeah, we're talking the stuff of dreams and we'll even throw in some Rocky Balboa, some good ole Wide World of Sports history--you know, the "thrill of victory and the agony of defeat!" If you love to dream, compete, and experience the full range of emotions that come with playing and performing, there is something in this episode for you! And, if you discover that something that is valuable to you, will you please share with the other sports or stage mom/dads you know?! Thank you so much for being here. Enjoy! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Hey there Very Important Parents! We resolve to up our game in 2024 as we strive to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Please hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts--while it lasts, and now you can watch the show on YouTube). New episodes drop every Monday. We would love it and be so grateful if you posted a glowing 5 star review along with a helpful comment for other listeners on what you are learning (and hopefully incorporating) from the show. After all, we created it just for you and as always, moms and dads, we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! -Nate & Steve

How Much Freedom Should I Give My Teens?

Parents--we're talking teenage freedom on The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast today! Specifically, how much do you give your teens. Oh man, this is a tough question when it comes to your kids. It perhaps is easy to answer it for other parents but not so much for yourself, but let's tackle it now! And while we're at it let's do the following: Look at a case study from The Andy Griffith Show back in the black and white days of TV. Ask ourselves "How do we hold our kids to standards? and... "How do we balance this with the friend part?" Compare and contrast authoritative and authoritarian parenting, uh coaching. A very interesting discussion indeed. Which do you think you are? Which do you think you should be? Great food for thought as you seek to up your parenting game by coaching more. Let's goooo! And before we go, we'll bring back the ever popular Flagrant Foul segment. We think you'll enjoy it and hopefully gain some valuable insights from it! Enjoy! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Hey there Very Important Parents! We are striving to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Please hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and on YouTube--click here if you want to watch the episode). New episodes drop every Monday. And...if you love the show, we would love it and be so grateful if you posted a glowing 5 star review along with sharing it with a few Parental Unit friends who would love it too. And as always, moms and dads, we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! -Nate & Steve

Are Your Expectations Getting in the Way?

Thanks for joining us on The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! Are you great at guessing, assuming, and mind reading when it comes to the relationship with your teen athlete or performer? Well, we confess we've traveled down that dead end path that leads to monumental letdowns and disappointments. Are your "expectations" getting in the way of elevating your relationship and more importantly, is there a better way? Yes, there is! We hope you enjoy this episode and extract some serious value as we dive into why "agreements" are a much better alternative to assumption-filled "expectations!" And, beyond the "why" we'll give you some tips direct from our work in progress Parent Tool we call The Agreement Generator! Enjoy! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Hey there Very Important Parents! We resolve to up our game in 2024 as we strive to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Please hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts--while it lasts, and now you can watch the show on YouTube). New episodes drop every Monday. We would love it and be so grateful if you posted a glowing 5 star review along with a helpful comment for other listeners on what you are learning (and hopefully incorporating) from the show. After all, we created it just for you and as always, moms and dads, we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! -Nate & Steve

Wanna Be the Ideal Sports Parent? Do This!!

Super Moms & Dads-we know that being a parent is the hardest job every and you're doing your best! Your son or daughter often finds themselves smack dab in the middle of preseason preparations. But, do you? We're going to get you thinking about how you can be the ideal sports parent today on The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! It's your preseason now--how will you prep yourself to be that amazing performance parent that coaches appreciate and rave about? We're gonna focus on some important "Do's" that automatically help you avoid some disastrous "Don'ts!" Time is a wasting--let's go parents! Let's get ready for the upcoming season! Enjoy! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Hey there Very Important Parents! We resolve to up our game in 2024 as we strive to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Please hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts--while it lasts, and now you can watch the show on YouTube). New episodes drop every Monday. We would love it and be so grateful if you posted a glowing 5 star review along with a helpful comment for other listeners on what you are learning (and hopefully incorporating) from the show. After all, we created it just for you and as always, moms and dads, we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! -Nate & Steve

Your Attitude is Contagious--Is Yours Worth Catching?!

Parents--we're talking attitude and optimism today on The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! You've no doubt heard the ole adage: Your attitude is contagious--is yours worth catching?! Well, is it? I sure hope so because as a parent you are on stage 24/7 and you're kids are very likely to replicate what you do. We're going to dive into modeling, inquiry, and even "neural synchronization!" Yep, Nate goes into full Nerd Mode and teaches about this fascinating brain truth! And for dessert, we'll introduce you to The Negativity Diet. So long South Beach, Atkins, or whatever diets you've latched onto before. This is no fad, this is a diet you'll love to incorporate every day the rest of your life! Enjoy! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Hey there Very Important Parents! We are striving to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Please hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and on YouTube--click here if you want to watch the episode). New episodes drop every Monday. And...if you love the show, we would love it and be so grateful if you posted a glowing 5 star review along with sharing it with a few Parental Unit friends who would love it too. And as always, moms and dads, we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! -Nate & Steve

Tragedy into Triumph: Bouncing Back From Injury & Setbacks!

Moms/Dads--Did injury (or setback) ever rear its ugly head back in the day during your playing or performing career? It likely did and you'd probably agree, it sucked! So what did you do about it? Did you turn tragedy into triumph? We trust that you did and hope you'll help your teen athlete or performer do the same if they are sidelined by an unfortunate injury. We're talking all things injury and bouncing back strong on The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast today! Let's help our kids turn into The Rubber Band Man or Woman and turn tragedy into triumph! Enjoy! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Hey there Very Important Parents! We are striving to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Please hit the follow button where ever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and on YouTube--click here if you want to watch the episode). New episodes drop every Monday. And...if you love the show, we would love it and be so grateful if you posted a glowing 5 star review along with sharing it with a few Parental Unit friends who would love it too. And as always, moms and dads, we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! -Nate & Steve

Izi Chinchay of PUSHtheGOAL Soccer & more!

Izi Chinchay (a name you won't soon forget) is our guest today on The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! Izi is a coach, leader, role model, podcaster, and a newlywed too (at the time of this recording she was counting down the weeks to her wedding). We're big fans and excited to have her on the show! Soccer mom and dad alert!! You are in the right place today. You are gonna soak up the wisdom, and may I say, next level energy, fire, and competitive spirit of this amazing lady! Izi has an important story to tell and we are 100% confident that it will inspire you (and your teens) to elevate your parenting game so you can best equip, encourage, and empower your athletes and performers! There's a little bit of everything in this episode for all moms and dads whether you're supporting your teens on the pitch, the court, or the stage. Sit back and generate some insight as we draw out wisdom and knowledge from the courageous, the resilient, the determined, the one and only Izi Chinchay!! Click here to find her on Instagram! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are striving to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers! Hit the follow button wherever you find us (Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or where ever you get your podcasts. And, if you like to WATCH rather than LISTEN, we are now on VIDEO with each of our future episodes (starting with Episode 50 ). You can find now watch us on YouTube on the Nate & Steve Channel (@CreateTransformBecome) click HERE: The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast! New episodes drop every Monday. If you are loving what you hear, could you please share The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast with a few of your friends so more parents and teens can benefit from what we're building! And as always moms & dads--we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching your superstar teen! You are doing better than you think and your teen athlete or performer is counting on you. We believe in you! -Nate & Steve

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