Daughters of the King | Christian Mom Podcast, Overwhelmed Christian mom, Christian single mom

por Victoria Gharis - Christian mom podcast, Faith-based habits, Christian woman faith growth coach

28. Why You Feel Stuck Waiting on God (And the Obedience You're Avoiding)

Do you ever say you’re “waiting on God”… but deep down you know you’re avoiding obedience? In this episode, we’re getting honest about what’s really happening in those waiting seasons. If you’ve been stuck in cycles of scrolling, emotional eating, numbing out, or just trying to “get through the day” while feeling spiritually drained—this is your wake-up call. Because here’s the truth: sometimes what feels like waiting on God is actually disobedience. I’m sharing a personal story from my single mom season and walking you through the what, why, and how of obedience—so you can stop living in frustration, hopelessness, and self-pity… and start walking in the joy, peace, and clarity God has for you right now. We’ll talk about: What obedience actually means (in real, everyday life) Why obedience matters—even when God feels silent How disobedience keeps you stuck in cycles of overwhelm and distraction Practical steps to start obeying God today (even if it feels hard) This episode will challenge you—but it will also equip you to take your next step with confidence. If you’ve been praying for breakthrough but avoiding the very thing God is asking you to do… it’s time to get honest, get aligned, and move forward. You don’t have to stay stuck. Ready to get out of survival mode and start following through on the life God is calling you to live? 🤍 Join the Diligent Daughters Academy Waitlist to be the first to know when enrollment opens. This coaching program is designed for Christian women who want to build faithful routines, strengthen their relationship with God, and become consistent in their walk with Him. ✨Join the Waitlist HERE: https://victoria-gharis.kit.com/75529e3cf8 If this episode encouraged you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who needs this reminder today.

17 abr 2026

18:48

27. The Lies You Believe About Yourself (And How Identity in Christ Sets You Free)

Do you keep telling yourself… “I’m just not a disciplined person”? Do you write out a to-do list, fall short, and then beat yourself up by the end of the day? If you feel stuck in a cycle of inconsistency, guilt, and frustration—this episode is going to hit different. Because the problem isn’t your discipline. It’s the lie you’ve been believing about who you are. In today’s episode, we’re having a real, big-sister conversation about: The hidden lies shaping your behavior Why you keep struggling to follow through How your identity in Christ changes everything And how to start renewing your mind so you can finally walk in freedom Scripture reminds us in Romans 12:2 to be transformed by the renewing of our mind—and that’s exactly what we’re diving into. I’m also sharing part of my story—how I used to find my worth in relationships, the lies I carried, and how God completely transformed my identity from the inside out. This is your invitation to stop striving… and start healing. - What you’ll walk away with: How to identify the lie you’re believing A simple way to replace it with truth Encouragement to step into the woman God created you to be -Get the FREE Resource: Journaling Prompts and Prayer https://victoria-gharis.kit.com/identity Ready to get out of survival mode and start following through on the life God is calling you to live? 🤍 Join the Diligent Daughters Academy Waitlist to be the first to know when enrollment opens. This coaching program is designed for Christian women who want to build faithful routines, strengthen their relationship with God, and become consistent in their walk with Him. ✨Join the Waitlist HERE: https://victoria-gharis.kit.com/75529e3cf8 If this episode encouraged you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who needs this reminder today. Music by music_for_video">https://pixabay.com/users/music_for_video-22579021/?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=music&utm_content=125565">music_for_video from Pixabay">https://pixabay.com//?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=music&utm_content=125565">Pixabay

14 abr 2026

19:24

26. 3 Lies Keeping Single Moms Stuck Without a Routine (And What Actually Works)

If you’ve ever thought… “I just need to be more disciplined” “I can’t stick to a routine” “I don’t have time for this” This episode is going to shift everything. As a single mom, creating a routine can feel overwhelming, unrealistic, or honestly… impossible. But the truth is, it’s not that you’re failing—it’s that you’ve been believing the wrong things. In today’s episode, we’re breaking down 3 major lies about routines that are keeping single moms stuck, scattered, and constantly starting over. Because you don’t need a perfect schedule… You need something that actually works in your real life. Inside this episode, you’ll learn: Why most routines fail (and it’s not because of you) The biggest mindset shifts you need to create structure that lasts What you can do to have a realistic, life-giving routine actually looks like as a busy single mom This is your permission to stop chasing perfection and start building a routine that brings peace, clarity, and consistency into your home. If you’re ready to go from chaos to structure—and finally feel like your life is working with you instead of against you—this episode is for you. Ready to get out of survival mode and start following through on the life God is calling you to live? 🤍 Join the Diligent Daughters Academy Waitlist to be the first to know when enrollment opens. This coaching program is designed for Christian women who want to build faithful routines, strengthen their relationship with God, and become consistent in their walk with Him. ✨Join the Waitlist HERE: https://victoria-gharis.kit.com/75529e3cf8 If this episode encouraged you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who needs this reminder today. music credit: Music by music_for_video">https://pixabay.com/users/music_for_video-22579021/?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=music&utm_content=125565">music_for_video from Pixabay">https://pixabay.com//?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=music&utm_content=125565">Pixabay

10 abr 2026

11:24

25. Feeling Stuck? This Letter to My Past Self Will Help You Finally Move Forward (Faith-Based)

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Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, and tired of doing life your way—only to end up in the same cycle? In this powerful and vulnerable episode, I read a letter to my past self—the version of me who was setting goals but had no clear direction, craving change but feeling completely stuck, and ready to surrender control and finally do things God’s way. If you’ve ever: Set goals but didn’t know where to start Felt scattered, inconsistent, or unmotivated Wanted real, lasting change—not just temporary motivation Desired a faith-based routine that actually works in real life This episode is for you. We’re talking about: ✨ Letting go of control and trusting God’s direction ✨ Why feeling stuck isn’t your failure—it’s your signal ✨ Moving from chaos to clarity with simple, intentional steps ✨ Building a lifestyle that is sustainable, disciplined, and aligned with your values Because this isn’t about doing more… it’s about doing what matters, consistently. You don’t need another overwhelming plan. You need a clear starting point—and the courage to take the next step. If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and start building a life that feels peaceful, purposeful, and structured—press play. Don’t Stay Stuck - Take the Next Right Step TODAY: Ready to get out of survival mode and start following through on the life God is calling you to live? 🤍 Join the Diligent Daughters Academy Waitlist to be the first to know when enrollment opens. This coaching program is designed for Christian women who want to build faithful routines, strengthen their relationship with God, and become consistent in their walk with Him. ✨Join the Waitlist HERE: https://victoria-gharis.kit.com/75529e3cf8 If this episode encouraged you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who needs this reminder today. Follow me on TikTok! @victoriaanneg Subscribe to the YouTube Channel! https://www.youtube.com/@VictoriaGharis Subscribe and Rate the Podcast! Thanks for listening, sending hugs -Victoria

7 abr 2026

6:55

24. Tired of feeling scatterbrained, overwhelmed, and constantly behind as a single mom? Start here

Are you tired of feeling scatterbrained, overwhelmed, and constantly behind as a busy (and exhausted) mom? In this episode, we’re talking about how to go from chaos to clarity with simple, practical steps that actually fit your real life. If you’ve been craving structure, peace, and a routine that works for you—not against you—this is your starting point. You’ll learn 3 powerful shifts to help you get unstuck and take control of your time: ✨ Why the best time to start is right now (even if you don’t feel ready) ✨ How getting clear on the life you don’t want can bring instant direction ✨ How to create a simple, realistic routine that brings structure without burnout This episode is for the overwhelmed mom who feels pulled in every direction and is ready to step into a more peaceful, intentional life—without perfection. Next Steps (Don’t Stay Stuck): Ready to get out of survival mode and start following through on the life God is calling you to live? 🤍 Join the Diligent Daughters Academy Waitlist to be the first to know when enrollment opens. This coaching program is designed for Christian women who want to build faithful routines, strengthen their relationship with God, and become consistent in their walk with Him. ✨Join the Waitlist HERE: https://victoria-gharis.kit.com/75529e3cf8 If this episode encouraged you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who needs this reminder today. Episode also available on Youtube.

3 abr 2026

14:41

23: Christian Single Mom + Dating | How to Prepare for a Godly Relationship While You Wait

Are you a single mom wondering if God has someone for you — or if you’ll be waiting forever? In this episode of Speak Life for Single Moms, host Victoria shares the four spiritual habits that transformed her from the inside out during her six years as a single mom — and ultimately prepared her for the marriage she prayed for. This isn’t a checklist. This is a real, vulnerable conversation about what it actually looks like to pursue God while navigating single mom dating, loneliness, and the deep desire for a godly relationship. In this episode you’ll discover: ∙ Why reading your Bible is the foundation of dating with intention as a single mom ∙ How prayer kept Victoria’s heart grateful through an unplanned pregnancy and an absent father ∙ What fasting taught her about putting God above the desire for a husband ∙ Why your character — not just your appearance — is what prepares you for lasting love Whether you’re actively dating as a single mom, thinking about it, or just trying to trust God in the waiting — this episode will meet you exactly where you are. Victoria also shares: ∙ The moment she realized loneliness doesn’t disappear with marriage ∙ How God changed not just her mindset but her entire character over seven years of prayer ∙ Why the waiting, as painful as it was, was worth every single moment Ready to get out of survival mode and start following through on the life God is calling you to live? 🤍 Join the Diligent Daughters Academy Waitlist to be the first to know when enrollment opens. This coaching program is designed for Christian women who want to build faithful routines, strengthen their relationship with God, and become consistent in their walk with Him. ✨Join the Waitlist HERE: https://victoria-gharis.kit.com/75529e3cf8 If this episode encouraged you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who needs this reminder today. Episode also available on Youtube.

27 mar 2026

15:42

22. You’re Not Overwhelmed—You’re Just Unclear | How to Beat Decision Fatigue as a Busy Mom

Do you ever feel busy all day… but still end the night feeling behind? Like you’re constantly switching between tasks— dinner, laundry, kids, your phone— and somehow nothing actually feels finished? You’re not alone. And more importantly… you’re not overwhelmed because you have too much to do. You’re overwhelmed because you haven’t decided what actually matters. In today’s episode, I’m breaking down decision fatigue—what it really is, what it looks like in your daily life, and why it’s keeping you stuck in a cycle of stress and inconsistency. I’m also walking you through 3 simple steps to help you: Get clear on your priorities (so everything stops feeling urgent) Stop letting distractions control your time Create a weekly rhythm that actually works for your life If you’re a busy mom who wants to feel more calm, more focused, and finally in control of your time—this episode is for you. Next Steps (Don’t Stay Stuck): Ready to get out of survival mode and start following through on the life God is calling you to live? 🤍 Join the Diligent Daughters Academy Waitlist to be the first to know when enrollment opens. This coaching program is designed for Christian women who want to build faithful routines, strengthen their relationship with God, and become consistent in their walk with Him. ✨Join the Waitlist HERE: https://victoria-gharis.kit.com/75529e3cf8 If this episode encouraged you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who needs this reminder today. Episode also available on Youtube.

20 mar 2026

8:29

21. Why Single Moms Struggle to Stick to Routines (Christian Time Management for Moms)

Many single moms struggle to create routines that actually stick. You start with good intentions, but life gets busy, the routine falls apart, and it can feel like you're constantly starting over. In this episode, we talk about the real reasons routines feel so hard to maintain as a single mom. From the fear that change will take too long, to the fear of failure, to the guilt many moms feel about taking time for themselves — these struggles are incredibly common. 1:10 You might worry that it will take too long to see results. 3:46 You might be afraid of failing. 7:15 You might struggle with mom guilt and wonder if taking time for yourself is selfish. 11:03 You never stick to anything. This conversation explores how to approach routines in a healthier way by focusing on small steps, faith, and realistic systems that work in the middle of busy motherhood. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of chaos, inconsistency, or overwhelm, this episode will help you rethink what it actually takes to build habits and routines that support your life as a mom. We also talk about the role of faith in daily routines and how even a few intentional minutes with God can shift your mindset and help bring peace and clarity to your day. If you're a Christian single mom who wants better time management, stronger habits, and more intentional days, this episode will encourage you to take the first step. Next Steps (Don’t Stay Stuck): Ready to get out of survival mode and start following through on the life God is calling you to live? 🤍 Join the Diligent Daughters Academy Waitlist to be the first to know when enrollment opens. This coaching program is designed for Christian women who want to build faithful routines, strengthen their relationship with God, and become consistent in their walk with Him. ✨Join the Waitlist HERE: https://victoria-gharis.kit.com/75529e3cf8 If this episode encouraged you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who needs this reminder today. Episode also available on Youtube.

13 mar 2026

15:08

20. I Thought Being a Single Mom Ruined My Chances of Marriage… God Proved Me Wrong

Can being a single mom actually prepare you for a healthy, God-honoring marriage? In this episode, I share my personal testimony of how God used my years as a single mother to shape my heart, heal past wounds, and prepare me to become a wife. If you’ve ever believed the lies that single moms are “broken,” “less valuable,” or “too much baggage,” this conversation will challenge those beliefs with biblical truth and encouragement. The world often tells single mothers that their chances of love, marriage, and a stable future are limited. But God’s plan is bigger than the labels people place on you. During my season of single motherhood, God did deep work in my life. He healed my heart from past relationships, taught me self-control, opened unexpected opportunities in my career, corrected my perspective about men, and softened my heart so I could walk in peace and femininity. In this episode, I share 5 powerful ways God prepared me for marriage while I was a single mom, including: • Healing from heartbreak, insecurity, and past relationship wounds • Learning biblical self-control and letting go of lust and unhealthy patterns • How God opened doors for career opportunities and provision • Letting God transform negative beliefs about men and relationships • Developing a gentle and peaceful spirit rooted in faith If you are a Christian single mom, waiting on God, healing from a breakup, divorce, or difficult relationship, this episode will remind you that your season is not wasted. God can use the hardest years of your life to shape you into the woman He created you to be. Marriage didn’t magically solve every problem in my life, but the work God did in my heart during my single-mom years laid the foundation for a healthy marriage today. If you’re in a season of waiting, trust that God is still writing your story. Next Steps (Don’t Stay Stuck): Ready to get out of survival mode and start following through on the life God is calling you to live? 🤍 Join the Diligent Daughters Academy Waitlist to be the first to know when enrollment opens. This coaching program is designed for Christian women who want to build faithful routines, strengthen their relationship with God, and become consistent in their walk with Him. ✨Join the Waitlist HERE: https://victoria-gharis.kit.com/75529e3cf8 If this episode encouraged you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who needs this reminder today. Episode also available on Youtube. Full Site:https://beacons.ai/victoriagharis

6 mar 2026

22:30

19. The One Nighttime Habit That Fixes Chaotic Mornings for Single Moms

Are your mornings chaotic as a working single mom? Do you wake up already overwhelmed, rushing your kids out the door, snapping when you promised yourself you wouldn’t, and still ending up late to school drop-off or work? In today’s episode, we talk about the one habit that can completely transform your mornings. It’s not a complicated 15-step morning routine. It’s your bedtime. If you’re a Christian single mom feeling burned out, emotionally exhausted, and constantly behind, this episode will help you reset your evenings so you can wake up calm, prepared, and present. You’ll learn how to work backward from your ideal morning, create a realistic nighttime routine, prep for the next day, reduce your mental load, and stop running on fumes. Inside this episode: Why your bedtime makes or breaks your morning routine How screen time impacts your sleep and stress Simple night-before prep habits for smoother school mornings How consistent kids’ bedtimes create margin for you Why preparation is biblical self-care, not perfectionism If you are tired of surviving motherhood and ready to become a calm, intentional, unhurried mom, this is your starting point. And if this resonates with you, don’t miss my free 5-day workshop, Chaos to Calm, starting March 23rd. This workshop is designed for Christian single moms who feel overwhelmed by their schedules, mental load, and daily responsibilities. We will reset your routines, create practical time blocks, simplify your home systems, and invite God back into the center of your everyday life without pressure or perfection. Ready to get out of survival mode and start following through on the life God is calling you to live? 🤍 Join the Diligent Daughters Academy Waitlist to be the first to know when enrollment opens. This coaching program is designed for Christian women who want to build faithful routines, strengthen their relationship with God, and become consistent in their walk with Him. ✨Join the Waitlist HERE: https://victoria-gharis.kit.com/75529e3cf8 If this episode encouraged you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who needs this reminder today. Episode also available on Youtube.

1 mar 2026

9:49

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