What happens when attraction crosses the line into fetishisation? And how do you date when people want the fantasy more than the real you?

In this episode of Shot by Qupid, Ajay sits down with Darren and Amrik to unpack queer dating, identity, and the messy realities of being desired but not always truly seen. From sauna culture and secret hookups to navigating fetishisation and non-binary visibility, the conversation dives into what it means to show up as your full self in a world that often reduces people to types.

Along the way, they talk about closeted dating, confidence, community, and how finding the right person can turn years of feeling invisible into something real.

Plus, Cupid’s Confession Corner returns with one of the most chaotic stories yet — a hookup that may or may not h ...