Messy Thoughts Episode 12. In this episode of Messy Thoughts, BJ and LeBron serve up a hilarious and heartfelt conversation that bounces from sports to Bad Bunny to interracial dating. The duo kicks things off with their weekend pickleball showdown (featuring court drama, Brazilian rivals, and very specific balls 👀), then spiral into a chaotic love letter to Bad Bunny and the Demon Slayer movie.

The heart of the episode dives into interracial dating and race dynamics — from online discourse around famous Black queer figures to personal stories of growing up mixed, dating outside your race, and navigating cultural nuances in relationships. Producer Keller joins in to share his perspective as a white partner in an interracial marriage, leading to an honest, funny, and vulnerable roundtable.

Hosted by BJ Burgess and Le ...