Saved, Not Self-Made
REPENT!!
When Pride Looks Spiritual
Where Did We Get That?
Trying To Prove Yourself?
Your Mouth is Ministering Something
Real Doesn't Mean Reckless
Deliverance Didn't Fail
Let It Die!
In this episode of Let's Be Holy For Real, Stephanie and Erica Jewel challenge the popular "self-made" mindset and remind us that everything we are, and everything we have is by the grace of God. They discuss how to pursue success without taking God's glory, the danger of relying on our own strength, and the difference between genuine humility and low self-esteem. You can celebrate what God has allowed you to accomplish while still recognizing the One who made it possible. We didn't save ourselves, and we cannot sustain ourselves. We are saved by grace, led by God, and called to use every blessing for His glory. If the self-made mentality has found its way into your thinking, it's time to return to the source. What We Talk About: Can a believer truthfully call themselves "self-made"? God is the Source, the Master Strategist, and the One who opens doors. God gives us ability, knowledge, strength, and opportunities to succeed. The Kingdom produces saved people, not self-made people. How culture can tempt believers to celebrate independence from God. Why success, money, business and career decisions should also be submitted to God. Recognizing and confronting pride before it takes root.
What if the biggest thing keeping us from God isn't the "big" sins, but the ones we've learned to excuse? Repentance isn't just for the moment you first come to Christ. It's a daily posture about of humility, obedience, and surrender. In this episode of Let's Be Holy For Real, we have an honest conversation about why repentance still matters and why it's more than simple saying, " Lord, I'm sorry." True repentance means turning away from the things that separate us from God and allowing Him to transform our hearts. From road rage to "little white lies," workplace integrity, social media, and the posture of our hearts, this conversation challenges us to examine our lives through the lens of God's Word. What We Talk About: Why repentance isn't outdated and why it's essential for every believer. Is apologizing enough, or does true repentance require a changed life? Why Christians should continue to repent. What it really means to turn away from sin. White lies, workplace dishonesty, taking what isn't yours, and other everyday compromises. Understanding the difference between deliberate rebellion and human weakness. How the Holy Spirit corrects us and how the enemy accuses us. Why God's mercy should lead us to transformation, not complacency. What following Jesus looks like in everyday decisions. How turning back to God brings peace, joy, and spiritual freedom.
Pride isn't always loud. Sometimes it hides behind church language, fake humility, religious performance, and the desire to be seen as "spiritual." In this honest conversation, Pastor Stephanie and Dr. Erica Jewel explore the subtle ways pride can disguise itself in the life of a believer. From performing in church and seeking recognition to social media influence, Christian culture, and even the difference between being spiritual and being led by the Holy Spirit, this episode challenges us to examine our motives and invite God to search our hearts. What We Talk About: Pride doesn't always look arrogant, it can look deeply religious. Is fake humility actually pride in disguise? Performing for people versus worshiping for God. The hidden desire to be seen as a "spiritual one." Why our motives matter more than our outward actions. How compliments can become a test of humility. Is today's church beginning to resemble the world? How to honestly ask God to search our hearts.
Have you ever heard a scripture preached or quoted and thought, "Wait...is that really what that means?" This week on Let's Be Holy For Real, we're talking about rightly dividing the Word, understanding Scripture in context, and being careful not to make the Bible say what we want it to say. Because the Word is too powerful to mishandle. Get in the Word. Let the Word get in you. And let's be holy for real. What We Talk About: The difference between reading the Bible and studying the Bible Why context is essential when interpreting Scripture The danger of using Scripture to support personal preferences Bible study tools that can help you grow How God's Word reveals deeper understanding over time Why Scripture should transforms us - not simply entertain us
Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is stop talking. In this episode of Let's Be Holy For Real, Stephanie and Erica Jewel talk about the challenge of being quiet when you want to defend yourself, explain yourself, correct the story, or prove that you were right. From church situations to workplace moments, personal misunderstandings, slander, pride, humility, and spiritual maturity - this conversation is real. Because being quiet is not weakness. Sometimes silence is faith. Sometimes holding your peace is obedience. Sometimes God is saying, "Let me handle this." What We Talk About: Why we feel the need to defend ourselves When silence becomes a spiritual discipline Letting your life speak louder than your words How to respond when your name is being lied on Why timing matters, even when what you are saying is true
In this week's episode, Dr. Stephanie and Erica Jewel dive into a powerful and practical conversation about the power of the tongue and how our words are constantly "ministering" something, whether we realize it or not. From every conversation to testimony service, prayer life, social media posts, and even casual phrases we repeat without thinking, this episode challenges believers to examine what their mouths are producing. Are our words building up, or are they sowing confusion, fear, gossip, or doubt? If you've ever needed a reminder that your words carry spiritual weight, this conversation is for you. What We Talk About: Your mouth is always ministering something (life or something else) Not every popular phrase or "cute saying" aligns with a holy lifestyle Gossip, backbiting, and "suggestive silence" can all sow discord Your words can either partner with God's will or give space to negativity Repentance is key when your words have caused harm
Is "I'm just being real" really honesty... or is it an excuse to be reckless? In this episode, Pastor Stephanie and Dr. Erica Jewel talk about the difference between being transparent and being harmful, telling the truth and wounding people, correcting in love, and simply "getting someone told." We're discussing reckless words, unchecked personalities, church hurt, leadership, accountability, and why "God knows my heart" is not a license to do whatever we want. Realness still needs wisdom. Truth still needs love. Liberty still needs surrender. What We Talk About: "I'm just being real" is not an excuse to be rude, reckless, or ungodly. Transparency needs boundaries, wisdom, and the right audience. Just because something is true does not mean it needs to be said. Correction should be done with love, timing, and discernment. "God knows my heart" should sober us, not excuse us. Realness should glorify God, edify people, and reflect Christ.
What if the problem isn't that God didn't deliver you... what if the problem is that you went back? In this powerful episode, Pastor Stephanie and Dr. Erica Jewel tackle a difficult truth many believers avoid: deliverance is often a moment, but discipline is a lifestyle. Why do some people return to the very things God set them free from? Why do old habits, addictions, relationships, and struggles seem to reappear? Is it possible that the deliverance worked, but we failed to build on it? If you've ever wondered why you're battling something God already delivered you from, this conversation may challenge the way you see faith, freedom, and spiritual growth. Deliverance didn't fail you. God didn't fail you. The question is: What did you do after He brought you out? What We Talk About: What happened after the breakthrough? The uncomfortable truth about personal responsibility. Why do people return to what God delivered them from? What is your plan when temptation comes? How to rebuild when you've gone back.
Some things in our lives are not meant to be managed, they are meant to die. In this episode of Let's Be Holy for Real, Pastor Stephanie and Dr. Erica Jewel have an honest conversation about dying to the flesh, letting go of old mindsets, releasing relationships God did not design to continue, and trusting Him when He asks us to lay something down. whether it is sin, pride, legalistic thinking, toxic attachments, fear, offense, or old habits-if God says let it die, there is life on the other side of. obedience. We are not dying to lose. We are dying to live. What We Talk About: Why some things must die before we can grow Why you cannot manage what God told you to crucify Trusting God through loss, separation, and surrender The danger of digging up what God already buried Why obedience opens the door to greater life in Christ
What if the biggest idols in our lives don't look like statues...but look like our phones, platforms, relationships, habits, ambitions, and even church culture? In this honest and eye-opening conversation, Pastor Stephanie and Erica Jewel unpack the subtle ways idols can take root in the hearts of believers - even while serving in ministry, attending church, and living "good" lives. From social media addiction to idolizing pastors, relationships, platforms, success, and even life itself...this episode confronts the uncomfortable question: Who or what do you run to before you run to God? What We Talk About: Anything you run to before you run to God can become an idol. You can leave worldly idols behind and still create idols inside the church. Sometimes God will remove idols from your life because He refuses to share His glory. We have to ask ourselves: what has my attention, affection, and dependence? Your idol may not be a golden calf. It may be your phone. The scary part about idols is most people don't realize they have them.