In this episode, we unpack the culture of Are We Dating the Same Guy pages and why these groups feel like both a support circle and a crime lab. If he’s showing up in your screenshots, your friend’s screenshots, and three different Facebook groups… he might be a shared resource.

Speaking of crime labs, we also dive into recent criminal trials, the patterns that show up again and again, and how the red flags we laugh about online sometimes mirror the ones that escalate offline.

And of course… we address our favorite recurring allegation: Are we lesbians? Apparently two women laughing together, analyzing men’s behavior, and having standards is suspicious. We discuss.