Friend Crush with Amber Akilla

Friend Crush with Amber Akilla

por Amber Akilla
Temporada 6

95 - girl confessions: lovebombed by a creative director and unhinged flings - exploring modern romance

WATCH VIDEO EPISODE: https://youtu.be/grzVGKHibVE Welcome back to another episode of "Girl Confessions"! Today, we've got another juicy installment for you. Miss Lisa spills the tea on her whirlwind romance with a creative director, complete with unexpected twists and turns. Get ready to hear all about the rollercoaster ride of lovebombing, flaky boys, and dating app adventures in Tokyo. But that's not all – buckle up as Lisa reveals the shocking revelation that the same creative director might be dating her look-alike! From heart-pounding flings to eyebrow-raising encounters, this episode has it all. Join us as we dive deep into the complexities of modern romance and navigate the highs and lows of dating in the digital age. So grab your favorite beverage, cozy up, and get ready for some scandalous stories. You won't want to miss this wild ride – tune in now and enjoy the latest installment of "Girl Confessions"! subscribe for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

94 - full-time vs freelance: navigating your career path

In this week's episode, we delve into the ever-relevant topic of "Full-Time vs Freelance" work arrangements. Join us as we unravel the romanticized notions surrounding freelance work and explore nuance in the pros and cons of both career paths. With careful consideration, we navigate the myriad factors that individuals must weigh when making the leap from full-time employment to freelance. From financial stability to work-life balance and beyond, we uncover the personal implications behind this career decision. Whether you're contemplating a career change or simply curious about the realities of different work arrangements, this episode offers insights and practical advice. Tune in as we dispel myths, attempt to offer guidance, and empower listeners to make informed decisions about their professional futures. Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation that goes beyond the surface to explore the complexities of modern work life. Hit play and join us as we navigate the full-time vs freelance debate together! subscribe for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

93 - nice guys & pick-me girls: gender expectations

Welcome to Episode 93! In this week's episode, we dive deep into the intriguing topic of "Nice Guys" and "Pick-Me Girls". Join me as we explore the similarities and differences between these two personas, and dissect the confusing connection between seeking validation and genuine connection. We'll unravel the complexities of gender expectations in modern dating and interrogate the roots of insecurity that often fuel these dynamics. Are "Nice Guys" and "Pick-Me Girls" really seeking the same thing, or are their motivations driven by different insecurities? Tune in for an insightful discussion that challenges conventional notions of romance and self-worth. Let's unpack these behaviors together and uncover the deeper truths behind the quest for validation. Don't miss out – hit play and join the conversation! subscribe for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

92 - girl confessions: crazy girlfriend era, delusional crushes & becoming secure

WATCH VIDEO EPISODE: https://youtu.be/B6HvIXEyL2c Welcome to this week's episode of "Girl Confessions"! Join us as we dive deep into the world of relationships and self-discovery with our special guest, Sandy. In this candid conversation, Sandy shares her experiences of being a 'crazy' girlfriend, navigating toxic patterns with boys, and the unexpected benefits of having an unhinged crush. Get ready to hear some juicy stories as Sandy reveals how she discovered her ex was cheating on her through Google and social media. From delusional crushes to heartbreak, Sandy opens up about the highs and lows of her journey and the valuable lessons she's learned along the way. Whether you're looking for some relatable experiences or seeking inspiration to break free from toxic patterns, this episode is for you! Tune in and join us as we slay through laughter, tears, and everything in between. We hope you enjoy our conversation – buckle up for a wild ride! subscribe for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

91 - go where you're appreciated: finding self worth in the right places

PRE-ORDER MERCH BEFORE JULY 17 ⁠https://www.friendcrush.club/ Welcome to "Go Where You're Appreciated: Finding Value and Self-Worth in the Right Places." In this episode, we delve into the pivotal question: What is our discomfort in service of? We'll explore when we should allow things to be easy instead of assuming success and happiness require suffering. Discover how to nurture genuine appreciation and self-worth, especially when you're trying to force it from incompatible people and situations. Join us as we unpack the importance of seeking environments where you're truly valued and respected. Tune in for insights on creating a life where you can thrive and embrace challenges without prolonging unnecessary struggle. Let's embark on this journey together and learn how to go where you're appreciated. Optimize your self-worth and happiness by understanding when to embrace ease and let go of the need for suffering. Hot & Having Fun 43VA! if you have a personal question you can send it to the @friend.crush IG page and it can be chosen to be answered in voice memo format. if you want a personalised answer via text please use this link ⁠https://direct.me/l/67j6⁠ subscribe for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

90 - DE-CENTER EVERYTHING: men, women, beauty, feminism - focus on yourself

PRE-ORDER MERCH BEFORE JULY 17 ⁠https://www.friendcrush.club/ In this week's "De-Center Everything: Men, Women, Beauty, Feminism & More – Focus on Yourself for True Empowerment" episode we consider how in the process of #realizingthings, we often get caught up in binaries and believe that if one thing doesn't work for us, we must swing to the opposite extreme. This podcast is about de-centering and bringing awareness to certain frameworks, ideologies, and external validations. Join us as we explore how creating a little distance from these limitations can unlock our true potential. We’ll discuss how to step away from societal pressures and focus on self-empowerment, self-love, and having fun. It's a process, it's a journey, and we're all in this together. Tune in to learn how to be hot, have fun, and live your best life by focusing on what truly matters – YOU! Let me know what you thought of this episode! if you have a personal question you can send it to the @friend.crush IG page and it can be chosen to be answered in voice memo format. if you want a personalised answer via text please use this link ⁠https://direct.me/l/67j6⁠ subscribe for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

89 - dating for money, financial dynamics & sprinkle sprinkle

PRE-ORDER MERCH BEFORE JULY 17 https://www.friendcrush.club/ This week we dip into the intriguing world of Shera Seven and the complex dynamics of 'dating for money.' From fleeting thoughts to evolving perspectives, we'll explore how my understanding of this phenomenon has evolved over time. Can clownery pay the bills? Probably not. But let's unpack the realities and nuances of 'dating for money' together. Share your thoughts and join the conversation! if you have a personal question you can send it to the @friend.crush IG page and it can be chosen to be answered in voice memo format. if you want a personalised answer via text please use this link ⁠https://direct.me/l/67j6⁠ subscribe for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

88 - emotional accountability & relationship roadblocks

PRE-ORDER MERCH BEFORE JULY 17 ⁠https://www.friendcrush.club/ WELCOME TO SEASON SIX OF FRIEND CRUSHHHHH WOOO Join us as we delve into the transformative concept of emotional accountability/responsibility. Ever experienced a moment where a term perfectly encapsulates a significant aspect of your life? That's precisely how I felt when I began reflecting on emotional accountability. It goes beyond mere empathy; it's about recognising the role each of us plays in our own emotional experiences without expecting others to bear our burdens in unhealthy ways, you know what I mean? Often, it's this very aspect that hinders us from either maintaining or rekindling relationships with those who have let us down or disrespected us. Let's unravel the layers of emotional accountability and its profound implications on our interpersonal connections. LET ME KNOW YOUR THOUGHTS! article referenced: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/peaceful-parenting/202007/the-emotionally-irresponsible-0 if you have a personal question you can send it to the @friend.crush IG page and it can be chosen to be answered in voice memo format. if you want a personalised answer via text please use this link ⁠https://direct.me/l/67j6⁠ subscribe for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla
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87 - 30 and no friends :( dealing w loneliness

special treat for friend crush listeners ~ i've received a few messages like this one so i felt the wheels turning in my brain and generated this response. i definitely missed out a few things but i hope that this provides helpful perspective for anyone that relates to the situation described. if you have a personal question you can send it to the @friend.crush IG page and it can be chosen to be answered in voice memo format. if you want a personalised answer via text please use this link ⁠https://direct.me/l/67j6⁠ subscribe for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

voice memo 12 - is age just a number? pt.2 the privilege of aging

more thoughts on how our relationship to our own age can affect our experience of life. there are so many amazing sides to getting older than i have only been able to appreciate as a result of embracing age rather than living in fear! subscribe for exclusive episodes & perks! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla
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