Some people kill their best relationships by misunderstanding jealousy and envy, and it's important to understand the emotional codes behind these feelings and how learning to process them can prevent erosion of said connections. If you've ever felt deep insecurity or seen jealousy tear friendships and romances apart, this episode is a guide to understanding what's really going on. We dive into the subtle differences between jealousy and envy, why they matter, how they show up in your life, and the cognitive distortions that amplify these feelings. Whether you're struggling with internalizing emotions or externalizing them, this will hopefully help you to understand how to process your reactions and use emotional regulation techniques like the RAIN method to break free from being a hater (kidding).