We know our coconut guy by name. That means we’re basically locals now.

Six weeks deep into our housesitting life, we've settled in so thoroughly we no longer feel like tourists—partially because Phnom Penh feels relatively tourist-free anyway. This week, we dive into the true rhythm of the Cambodian capital and share the unexpected keys that unlocked the city for us.

We explore the fascinating contrasts everywhere: the massive, relentless construction reshaping the skyline, and the hilariously interesting inspiration they seem to be taking from certain famous European landmarks.

More importantly, we reveal the absolute best way to experience the city: being fully embraced by the local community. The incredible lesbian community has accepted us  ...