A Dandelion's Journey to Love: Settling vs Settled

In this episode, I share the story of my relationship with my husband and the deeper lesson I learned about the difference between settling and being settled. After coming out of a chaotic and painful experience, I was searching for peace and believed I had found it in him. But I hadn’t yet found peace within myself.

As we built a life together, I carried much of the responsibility and slowly lost myself. Even after our divorce, I entered another long-term relationship, still unhealed and searching for validation. It wasn’t until one of my lowest moments, when I felt completely broken, that I encountered God’s love in a way that changed everything.

Through that experience, I began to understand that I was already whole. With time and healing, I was able to see Boaz differently—not as someone to complete me, but as someone who supports and walks beside me.

This episode explores what it means to grow from survival into wholeness, and how true love begins when you are first rooted within yourself.