In this episode of Conversations With Toi, we’re unpacking what it really means to have Type A tendencies—the drive, the structure, the ambition, and yes, the pressure we quietly put on ourselves. We talk about how these traits can be both powerful and overwhelming, and how unlearning perfectionism becomes a necessary part of any real wellness journey. Because being “on” all the time isn’t sustainable, and it definitely isn’t the path to becoming a better version of ourselves.

We also shift into a heartfelt conversation about Mother’s Day—the joy it brings for some, the heaviness it brings for others, and the complicated middle space many people sit in. Whether you’re celebrating, grieving, navigating distance, or redefining what motherhood means in your life, this episode honors t ...