All of us, both you and I, are pre-wired and long to be in healthy relationships. Unfortunately, we haven’t had a good working definition for “relationships” so it is often hard to tell whether we are really in a relationship or not. Even worse, because “relationships” aren’t healthily defined, it’s hard to tell if we are in a healthy or unhealthy relationship.

Some definitions of a relationship include the way in which two or more people or things are connected, an emotional attachment between individuals, and the state of being related or interrelated. All relationships require some sort of connection and are always based on how we relate to the other.

Healthy and productive or toxic and destructive, we all relate in one way or another. Every experience changes us… moves us closer or farther away from our destiny. Healthy ...