WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO TELL ME YOU’RE GAY? Ft. Storm

While other young people were hiding relationships, changing the way they talked, or terrified that being honest could cost them their family, Storm grew up with something many Black gay boys never experience:

Permission to exist exactly as he was.

His mother didn’t shame him. She didn’t make him feel like something was wrong with him. She looked at her son and asked the question before he could even say the words:

“When are you going to tell me that you’re gay?”

And that moment may have changed the trajectory of his entire life.

On this episode of Break Phree Podcast, Storm gets REAL about growing up gay in New Orleans, being a Black gay man in today’s world, and how having acceptance at home kept him from fighting some of the depression, secrecy, shame, and identity struggles that so many people silently carry.

But we go even deeper.

Storm talks about learning to do hair and makeup, finding his gift, navigating masculinity and sexuality, and what happens when the world has opinions about who you are—but you were never taught to hate yourself.

Some people spend half their lives trying to become free.

Storm had a mother who gave him permission to be free before the world could convince him he needed to hide.

🔥 This conversation is going to make some parents uncomfortable.

It’s going to make some people rethink what “acceptance” really looks like.

And it might make somebody realize that the way you respond when your child tells you who they are can stay with them for the rest of their life.

🎙️ STORM — on Break Phree Podcast

Where Faith Meets Freedom.