Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 35: A Birth Mother's Heart Adoption choices are difficult, there is no other way to explain this.  Choosing to carry a baby for nine months and place that baby with another family may seem unimaginable.  However, to that pregnant woman, she has stories, secrets and dreams that people may not be aware of.  She may not be in the same financial position, in a safe relationship, have family support or even available resources.  She may not have a place to call “home”, know where her next meal is coming from, or have the ability to even seek medical care for herself.  An adoption choice is a deeply personal one and should remain a personal one, it’s an incredibly respectable choice that a woman has had since the biblical times.  A woman who has chosen adoption has chosen life, but is selflessly choosing to allo ...