Sex is one of those things we’re all kind of told should just “work” and be simple, but for a lot of people it really, really isn’t, and that gap between expectation and reality can leave you feeling confused, frustrated, or like you’re the only one who didn’t get the memo.

In this episode we are joined by the incredible Dr Leila Frodsham, consultant gynaecologist and obstetrician and one of the leading voices in psychosexual medicine, to open up a conversation that is so often avoided or whispered about rather than properly understood. And honestly, she is exactly the kind of person you want in this space, warm, grounded, and brilliant at making the complicated feel a bit less intimidating.

We talk about what it actually means when sex doesn’t feel straightforward, why so many people are left thinking it is just them, a ...